i met this guy at a baseball game and i talked to him the next night and basiclly told me we should hang out but after that he never talked to me, i texted him monday night and talked to him and we kinda made plans to hang out this weekend and i told him id talk to my friend about it cuz we were gonna hang out with her and a couple of ppl and then he really didnt talk to me again i talked to him a school the next day for a min and today i said hey to him in the hall one and he barly said hey back but then the next time i saw him he said they to me. but he hasnt called or texted me for a couple of days so my ? is does he like me or not?
2007-04-18 15:56:50 · 11 answers · asked by Help! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am sorry to say I think the guy doesn't like you as it seems he is avoiding you. Don't worry you will find another guy who will follow you. I think we have all had someone we remember who just were not interested.not to worry, just wait and see.
2007-04-18 16:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by aurora 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He appears interested in getting to know you or he wouldn't have said anything about hanging out, but I wouldn't say that he liked you as he doesn't know you yet. He probably just wanted to get to know you.
This is new to both of you. Guys are not going to go goo goo all over you right away. I wouldn't think of him as a boyfriend material right now. Just think of him as a friend and try to get to know him slowly. He is a guy and appears to have many other things on his mind. I wouldn't just set your mind to just him. Have fun getting to know other guys too, as friends. You have to know them as friends first anyway.
I want to marry my best friend someday, guy wise that is. I have a friend that we met almost two years ago, and we were just friends until about November. We started dating then. It is much better to become friends before you date. You know them better that way.
Have fun with your friends and hang out with them. Have a good summer. Be safe and God Bless.
2007-04-18 23:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either:
1. He is really a big jerk and doesn't like answering to a 1 date
2. I think he likes you just not that way.
3. it was kind of fast to ask him to hang out.
I mean I think he is a reall big jerk and he doesn't deserve you.
2007-04-18 23:01:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't know what he's doing.
The 'hey' part is acceptable, I'm guessing he didn't know if you two knew each other well enough to be like 'oh hey whatsup?', or maybe he didn't even see you.
Just keep it up, try and get to know him better, don't go from 'who are you?' to 'OMG LETS MAKE OUT'
2007-04-18 23:02:01 · answer #4 · answered by adklsjfklsdj 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he likes you, but probably as a friend. You should give him some space, and say hey, and keep being friendly, but don't "move in" too quickly.
2007-04-18 23:00:47 · answer #5 · answered by K N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's hard because he could be avoiding u because he is nervous and likes u or he could be avoiding u because he doesn't like u. i don't know and i'm sorry if if that didn't help at all. let's just say boys r VERY confusing.
2007-04-18 23:02:18 · answer #6 · answered by jennifahhhh =) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its a no. butt it is a possiblity cuz he wanted to hang out with you, so that means there could be something there :]
2007-04-18 23:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by diane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just not that into you.
You made an impression. He knows how to use the phone, let him.
2007-04-18 23:01:56 · answer #8 · answered by laur4239 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly my guess is no. if he did he would make more of an effort to talk and hang out with you.
2007-04-18 23:00:18 · answer #9 · answered by peace 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just met him, he probably doesn't know if he likes you or not yet---chill for a bit.
2007-04-18 23:01:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋