2007-04-18 15:45:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have known each other for 5yrs now. Im trying to move on, so far I have tried no contact its only been a week so far, we use to talk everyday....
2007-04-18 15:54:46 · update #1
It has been over a week now and he txts me asking what im up 2. What is he really after?.....I have set him straight and said he can go find some1 else to shag cause he aint getting anything from me, but he still txts.....mayb its just friends???
2007-04-20 14:37:10 · update #2
Love happens! but you do need to consider the consequences of how it will affect others and not just what you want. If things haven't started up yet, then you should determine if it is just lust. Love takes allot of maturity, responsibility, respect, & comunication. It is a moral code of actions and temptation is the hardest to defend against. Love needs trust, how will you be able to trust him if he cheats on his wife, and how could he trust you - if you are capable of going along with it (dishonesty). It would be something that couldn't last - that is not love. If you both feel that it is love then take steps to get your lives in order so you don't hurt other just because of need. There is something deeper that you or both of you are running from- and that would be truth. If it is just you that feels & knows this then you need to walk a way and think about your life and who you are and what love means to you. You will see a bigger picture. Good Luck - it won't be easy...
2007-04-18 16:13:49 · answer #1 · answered by Amec 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure its really love?? Pardon my bluntness but don't you think the reason why your in love with a married man is for a reason that you don't have to be committed with him? But if you will pursue this, would you like to be called home wrecker? it doesn't matter if he told you a thousand time that he loves you, married man will never leave their wife even though that they are sleeping with another woman.
Don't settle for second best, your parents didn't raised you to be second best. There's a lot of single men out there that you can pay attention, not for those who are already taken....
2007-04-18 23:53:47 · answer #2 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you realize that this man has, at the very least, treated you like a whore and at worst, sees you that way also? You have to realize that you deserve better than someone else's leftovers. In my opinion, it is self destructive to get involved with an unavailable man. You are setting yourself up for heart ache. Leave him alone, seek counseling for yourself and move on with your life! Good luck!
2007-04-18 23:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by Linnygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There can be no future with him if he is still married to his wife. No matter what excuses he gives (has to wait til the kids are grown etc etc.)..he has not divorced his wife...and most likely will not. Move on and get some self esteem. Good luck!
2007-04-18 23:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by Linda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This man is not in love with you. He was using you to add excitement to his life. He was probably middle aged and having a mid life crissis. He needed something new to spice his boring life up. But in the end he loves his wife (he didn't divorce her for you).
2007-04-18 22:58:15 · answer #5 · answered by Envious80 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're headed for trouble. Have more self respect for yourself & find a single guy who is available. Don't be a home wrecker.
2007-04-18 22:50:44 · answer #6 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone and go find your own man. This man already has a wife. Do what is right!
2007-04-18 22:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't been with this man or spent great time with him how can you be in love? Maybe you are lusting after him. How would you feel if this was your husband? Please, have more respect for yourself than this ... and for his wife & family. You're playing with fire and it might just back-fire on you. Please, go find yourself a nice single guy.
2007-04-18 22:51:29 · answer #8 · answered by daffodil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what ? that happened to me so your not alone but believe me when i tell you that you are the one that will get hurt in this relationship , he wont , if it doesnt work out with you , he can just go back to his life with her , you will be alone crying over him! just leave it alone and find a single man with no ties !
2007-04-19 07:41:08 · answer #9 · answered by dawn p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says he's in love with you, remember this. He told his wife that he was in love with her at one time too. Sounds like he may be prone to change his mind. Think about it. long and hard.
2007-04-18 22:56:12 · answer #10 · answered by nimbus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋