my "bf" recently had me to move to tx to be with him. i was in cali. when i arrived at the airport he wasnt there. i waited 4 hours for him, he didnt show. finally i got a hotel room. where i did everything in my power to get a hold of him. i cant find him any where. however i did his girlfriend. it turns out that he did exactly the same thing to her.
naturally i am mad as all hell at him. he seems to get off on doing this to girls.
my question is, do i let this go or do i take my revenge and the revenge of all the other girls he did this to. and what should the revenge be?
2007-04-18 15:10:59 · 14 answers · asked by kitten 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he did give me all of his information, name, address hell even his work and school. when i got there it turned it was all lies
2007-04-18 15:26:15 · update #1
Add his name to the DontDateHimGirl website. This website is devoted to women that have been mistreated by cheating, lying, manipulative guys. Women go on there to share their experiences and "out" these jerks.
While not every woman he comes across will know he's listed, chances are that someone at some point in time will, and he'll be branded as a jerk. Who knows, it might help someone else while belittling him at the same time.
2007-04-18 15:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by art_is_my_religion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably want to hear revenge. I, personally, would try my best to let it go and make sure it does not happen to you again. At least you now know the warning signs. Even though you get revenge, you still think about it.
2007-04-18 15:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, dump him. Then tell him you don't want to see him again. I think revenge is a waste of time...yeah, i used to love revenge, but really, it doesn't make you feel better. It's just another way to show everyone what kind of person you are.
2007-04-18 15:15:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you made a very naive decision to move without a back up plan. If you can, get a return ticket go home and chalk this up to a learning experience. I guarantee you won't make the same mistake twice.
2007-04-18 15:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you move there without getting his address before getting on a plane to fly there?
2007-04-18 15:18:58 · answer #5 · answered by corazon_muy_dulce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to move on WITHOUT him and be happy
2007-04-18 15:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by TEACHING GODDESS 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
your best revenge would be to walk away be happy and learn from it so you never get into that situation again.
2007-04-18 15:14:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
GRRRR~
What an asshole!! I hate him and dont even know him!
You should think of the meanest thing possible and do it! You and that girl should team up.
2007-04-18 15:17:49 · answer #8 · answered by caseelaine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what drives people to do this... nothing you could do could ever get back unless of course you are satan and have the power to smite him for an eternity
2007-04-18 15:17:34 · answer #9 · answered by Matt W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get revenge
2007-04-18 15:15:04 · answer #10 · answered by roy m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋