Not to be bashing females, girls or any nice ladies out there...
My ex, we dated for maybe seven years and we thought we would be happy together. Ever since day 1 of our relationship, she wanted kids straight off and I didn't feel ready to take that responsibility. So, during the seven years, she went around behind me sleeping with other guys; thinking she wouldn't get caught. The next night from staying with one of her flings, she stays with me and 3 weeks later she tells me she's pregnant and it's mine...even though we did nothing that night cept sleep. she told me that I fell asleep during the "fun".
I'm not with her anymore, but I can't understand why she played like that. She's tried talking me into taking her back, but I know it's like my truck is more faithful than she is.
Should I take her back and give her another chance or just stay with my truck(so to speak)???
2007-04-18 14:48:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay with your truck... you said yourself it was more faithfull! She is a liar and a cheater... get away from that, it isn't good for you ...isn't good for baby either. Not all women are like that and you deserve someone better.....
She has someone else's child in her and she may have some else's STD and may give it to you!
Don't take her back. If she keeps on about the baby being yours, don't give her money or anything until you find out for sure via paternity test that the baby is yours! Otherwise she could be suckering you out of money and that is just messed up. I bet she really knows who the father is anyway.. or maybe she just slept with to many to tell.
Don't be an a$$ but don't be a sucker!
She will keep up with the cheating... I doubt the only reason she did it was because she wanted a baby. But going with that... she should have tried to work out the issues or just left.
Wow 7 years with her? I am going to assume you just found out about the "other" Men.... get out hun... she isn't worth the dirt you walk on.
2007-04-18 15:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ PrincessLeia ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should find out exactly WHY she lied to you. maybe there's a good reason, and sometimes, the problem can be solved. if you're considering taking her back as one of your choices, that must mean you still feel something for her. if you think ahead, its possible that things could work out, and you guys can start new. after all, seven years is a really long time to just drop it, even if she did do horrible things to you. just make sure that when you talk to her, you set things straight and there are no more lies or secrets. be careful not to get hurt a second time and take things slowly. still, give her a chance. a second chance is ok, but there's no such thing as a third chance. if she does something again, then just forget about her
2007-04-18 14:53:47 · answer #2 · answered by miisty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi... all girls are not like this
some of us have more self respect than to run around with other men and cheat like that.
she doesn't seem a very dedicated or loyal type person. and she may never be. perhaps she has some underlying emotional issues which make her feel worthless or lacking self-esteem.
you have to decide whether to take her back or not. if it were me, and i went through what you've described, i wouldn't go back.
take care.
2007-04-18 14:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly she had no reason to cheat on you. If she wasn't happy she should of told you and second of all if she really loved you she could of waited till you were ready to have kids!!! I f i were you i'd stick with the truck! hope that helps. srry for your situation
2007-04-18 14:55:20 · answer #4 · answered by rudy31992 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a protection mechanism which maximum human beings even adult males use while they think of their companion is cheating on them or they're paranoid. likely through her own rigidity made by using herself and her own recommendations which she facilitates to run rampart. My suggestion is you consult along with her in a low voice the subsequent time she does it, be intense yet in addition upload the sound on your voice that your drained (shows you're bored to death in it going on, shows them you're actually not planing to cut up on her for yet another woman) then tell her if she doesnt supply up an excellent form of those video games of asserting recommend issues or that she is 'flat out' telling you she is slumbering with others you will pass away her and which you may might desire to or you will injury your self (mentally or bodily) through that rigidity. it would wake her up. i for my area have had it ensue to me and executed it myself to safeguard myself against a unethical companion. Love hurts. wish this helps.
2016-12-29 08:32:01 · answer #5 · answered by lodge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with your truck. now i can honestly tell you that people i know play games but not to the point where they wanted to have kids, too young for that. at any case, thats messed up how she treated you, but dont let her get in the way of future realtionships.
2007-04-18 14:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by Charnelle aka Nelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you know, i really dont think that you should take her back..
not trying to be rude, but she prob wants you so she doesnt have to take full care of the baby...
and plus she slept with a bunch of guys so how can you trust her again?
2007-04-18 14:53:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her, she doesn't deservea good person like you. i'm sure she's going to get into trouble later on, and regret it. you don't need her, and she shouldn't be given a second chance.
2007-04-18 14:53:49 · answer #8 · answered by summer lover ♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way dude,once a girl cheats on you not with one but several other men,ditch her fast,you can never trust her again,just my opinion,good luck
2007-04-18 14:52:36 · answer #9 · answered by jesse12508 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER let a girl cheat on you. **** that. shes not worth it.
2007-04-18 14:51:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋