what can i do to catch a guys attention.. i mean all the guys that want to go out with me, seem so wrong.. they're totally not my type... please tell me!! i need advice form guys please?? and girls too
2007-04-18 14:31:32 · 13 answers · asked by chely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Many times people rush into things just to find someone better. to me relationships should happen spontaneously, you shouldnt have to look for guys or attract their attention. Same concept as a lost item. Have you ever tried to find something and couldnt? but found it later when you werent searching for it?
2007-04-18 14:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by Epiphany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a plaid skirt saddle-shoes type girl whose type is a guy wearing baggy pants, an oversize tee-shirt and big expensive Adidas sneaks? Look at the guys you think are your type. What characterizes the girls they are attracted to, style-wise? Start wearing and using the style of those girls. If these guys you like go for the girl with the plunging neckline, then make a plunging neckline your newest favorite look. Then hang out where those guys hang out. It may be a bar, it may be someone's house. Wangle an invitation to wherever they are. Then just look and listen.
2007-04-18 21:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your attracting the wrong types maybe a change in your style of dressing would help. You need to expand your search area also.
If your looking in the same old places look someplace new.
Are you setting your standards to high? Is your expectation level to high? Last if your judging guys based on their material possessions then you'll never find Mr right!
2007-04-18 21:38:55 · answer #3 · answered by JJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 1st of all, you wana see the type of girls they hang around with already> if you realy wana impress a guy go for the look he likes. also when ever your around him start up small talk everyonce in a while> and in between give him some very suttle signs, if you are in a group with him and others direct what your saying to him. make him want you, also if you do get their attention then you realy just have to wait and do what youve been doing.
2007-04-19 07:26:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yoursefl, i know it sounds like something cheesy from a Disney channel show but it is the best way if u want to attract the right kinda guy.
2007-04-18 21:36:43 · answer #5 · answered by Kurishiku 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances r if your not getting what u want then your not hot enough. You have 2 choices:
1. lower your standards like some1 else said or
2. U have to wait along time to get what u want - im talking years
Im exactly like u, i refused to lower my standards but i had to wait like 6 years before i got what i wanted. How long it will last im not sure but right now im the happiest guy in the world
2007-04-18 21:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by Pauly P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't we all. There are plenty of good guys out there for a quality girl like you. Whatever you do, don't settle. Stop looking so hard, there are easier to find when you are not looking for them.
2007-04-18 21:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel the same way i attract the wrong type of girls... i understand your pain
2007-04-18 21:34:15 · answer #8 · answered by nickname 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress slutty lol no j/k don't do that just be yourself and maybe ask a guy out that you wanna go out with
2007-04-18 21:35:34 · answer #9 · answered by big 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey honey, wanna come over to my place and "watch a movie?"
2007-04-18 21:34:26 · answer #10 · answered by THATGUY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋