i know he will be happier if i do and if i keep the house neat and tidy like he expects
2007-04-18 14:30:16 · 36 answers · asked by Lilmisssassy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i do clean the house.....its never clean enough for him
2007-04-18 14:38:08 · update #1
It's all up to your will to want to be tidier and such. So push yourself to clean up after yourself and stuff.
2007-04-18 14:33:14 · answer #1 · answered by lilithx3 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Don't gp changing for this guy. If you know that you are not a neat and tidy person then don't try to be. He has got to see the person you are to know if he will want to be with you. Are maybe you can come to some kind of agreement to keeping the house neat and tidy. I have a system, I clean the kitchen and bathroom and you do the our room and the living room. It work out that way when both party's try to do some of the housework and not leave it all to one person.
2007-04-18 14:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to be submissive to anyone other than your husband who would never take advantage of that. You should keep the house nice and tidy for yourself. Your personal space reflects who you are. I for one would like to be known as someone who has her **** together. If you sleep there, your stuff is there it's not just his house no matter who pays the bills. Anyone can have a clean house. Once you train yourself into a routine it's a snap. Do a basic wipe down everyday am &pm. Give things their own day. fridge-mondays bedding-tues. Also tackle 1 dif job a day under bathroom sink, kitchen cabinets, desk, ext
2007-04-18 14:59:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I think is if you want to go that way get horney and enjoy it. Try keeping the place neat and tidy in the nude except when friends are around though. If he likes it give him oral sex. Some people will punish their husband/wife by biting on their genitals and for some people being punished makes submission more intense
2007-04-18 14:38:42 · answer #4 · answered by lord_andys_new_id 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to learn to be more submissive, you need to understand that his being angry is never really about the cleanliness of the house, but about control.
So don't take his complaints as anything but love-games.
I've known several very happy sub/dom couples, but it really has to be a situation you are comfortable and accepting of. It should never be abusive, and there needs to be common respect underlying it all.
For this to happen, you would have to sit down and have an honest discussion with him about this. Comfort guidelnes, and safe-words are a good place to start.
If you both decide that this is the kind of relationship you want, and you want it with each other, you might never have to use those safe words, if he is a good responsible dom you never should have to.
Hope this helps...
2007-04-18 15:10:46 · answer #5 · answered by PtolemyJones 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ephesians 5:22 "Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. 24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
Your main motivation should be that God commands it. Of course, he's not your husband yet, but being submissive will be good preparation for whenever you do get married. It shouldn't be too hard to do, as long as you know that he loves you.
2007-04-18 14:42:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it will. After all, no matter how beautiful you are if you're BF saw house in a complete disarray, its surely a complete turn-off. Just be natural about yourself, but be sure that your natural is the basic and acceptable and reasonable standard. You need not to buy new one to impress him. He will surely love just the way you are. In fact, it's also a test on his part if he really cares for you.
2007-04-18 14:35:10 · answer #7 · answered by dondatu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all........when he learns to be more submissive to you then you can be submissive to him. If he wants a neat and tidy house, he can help you clean it!!!!!!
2007-04-18 14:35:02 · answer #8 · answered by Benita Applebum 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What!!! We got rid of being submissive to men a long time ago. Trust me you'll be happier if you don't. Tell him you'll clean the half if he cleans half and if your half isn't clean enough for him he can clean it again.
2007-04-18 14:35:31 · answer #9 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he likes it neat and tidy why doesn't he clean it?
2007-04-18 14:32:55 · answer #10 · answered by BumbleToe 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Say yes to just about whatever he wants to do that's legal and feasible. Anything from "that come-on look" to doing whatever he wants sexually. Let him have a boy's night out or participate in things he likes to do away from the house.
2007-04-18 14:35:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋