I love him and all and he's an amazing guy but I want to be a mother now!!
2007-04-18 14:00:45 · 8 answers · asked by Mom2aGirlandaBoy 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
You need to understand, having a child is a JOINT PROJECT. Caring for, and growing with the baby is a joint project.
My honest opinion is, you are rushing into this with your own selfish motives that is both unreasonable and undesirable.
Sit down with him and have a calm conversation. If needed, go seek counselling. This is nothing you should or need to rush into.
2007-04-18 14:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is better for a child to have a stable family life. Maybe you should wait until after you are married. So many people try to do things backwards now-a-days and there are so many kids growing up in broken families and it is making society so depressed. I have never seen so many depressed kids in my life as there are now! Once you are married and feel a stable environment, then give it a try. Good Luck!
2007-04-18 14:06:43 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Trying♥ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever think that maybe he's a little scared? That was a hard thing to go through and he's just dealing with it different then him. If you truly loved him you would understand that he just needs time to heal. Have a little heart and stop thinking about yourself.
2007-04-18 14:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by Tina D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 05:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do I understand this properly...did you have a miscarriage, and now your boyfriend wants to wait a while before trying for another baby?
I think you need to sit down with him and have a long heart to heart about his reasons for this.
Talk to him.
Good luck :)
2007-04-18 14:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
leave him and find someone that ready to start a family!! here my email address if you want to get to know a great guy!!! efrain78223@yahoo.com
2007-04-18 14:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, if it would be that easy for you to walk away from him...he is not the man you should be having children with.
2007-04-18 14:04:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he needs time to heal emotionally as well?
2007-04-18 14:03:19 · answer #8 · answered by Betsy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋