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Ive been hanging around with this girl for some time now and we've both grown to like each other, she even kissed me, but when the topic of a relationship comes up she say she doenst want a boyfriend. So ive been thinking about bringing up the suggestion of an "open relationship", basically just us being together, none of this bf/gf, going on dates kinda stuff, just going and having a good time. Anytime she wanted out there would be no questions asked, no hearts broken. But seeing as Im not an expert on the subject I dont know if this is the right thing to do, or just drop the subject entirely and see if she brings in up again. Any advice would be greatly appreciated

2007-04-18 12:25:53 · 9 answers · asked by painkiller356 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

9 answers

Your plan, is a damn good one. Very advanced.

But if you WANT her to be exclusive to you, you gotta show her that you're worth it. Make her want you. Don't buy her ANYTHING unless it's her birthday, be interesting, and confident, and if it doesn't work - walk away, because it never will.

Write me privately if you need more.

2007-04-18 12:31:31 · answer #1 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0 0

Open relationships are a bad idea. No matter how many times you tell yourself that you won't get attatched, won't care if they leave, and it's not a big deal, someone always gets hurt. If you're happy with the way things are going, i'd stick with it for a while, but if she doesn't want the same things you do, it's not gonna end good. Get out before you've got a chance to get too attatched!

2007-04-18 12:33:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

One very open relationship its always a girl who always had a bad backfire...It really depends on a woman,if shes the type of a girl whose very liberated then she would like your open relationship proposals,but if her reasons for fear of a committment is out of bad past experiences I dont think she would love an open relationship with anyone,maybe all you need is to wait for her patiently until shes ready for a relationship and make her feel that you are sincere adn everything

2007-04-21 09:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

How do you feel about her? Do you see two of you have a future together? If the answer to both questions is yes, and you know what you want in a relationship, make it work!

2007-04-18 12:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by A. C 1 · 0 0

Sometimes a girl enjoys the companionship but does not want the committment. If you feel that you can deal with this and not end up getting hurt I would say give this a try. Who knows with time she might change her mind.

2007-04-18 12:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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2016-12-16 09:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

try to tease her by other girls after talking to her for 2 weeks for example,,and the see her reaction if she loves u as a bf or not

2007-04-18 12:33:55 · answer #7 · answered by miro 2 · 0 0

well, it seems like she just wants to play with different people. thats cool, but if you want to be in a relationship with her, i would back off. even if you agree to just be makeout buddies, you will have to live with seeing her with different guys over and over.

2007-04-18 12:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by lema_peru 1 · 0 0

enjoy! its nice to have a fubu

2007-04-18 19:00:39 · answer #9 · answered by z3bastian 2 · 0 0

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