basically, im 15, and i go to a girl's school, and im happy with my life.
I have loads of friends, and people have told me that im attractive and stuff, so i dont think there's anything wrong with me.
its just...im 15...shouldnt i be having a boyfriend by now? i havent even kissed a boy, and if i like a boy, i havent had the courage to ask him out.
before i started this girls school, guys fancied me ocassionaly and i fancied them too. but none of the guys who fancied me even, asked me out! I know a lot of girls my age are in my situation, i know this is probably normal, but i just feel like im so far behind.
I'm not disgusting. theres nothing wrong with me...why is this happening?
i love my school, even though its just girls, but i do hate the way it means i never get to spend any time with guys. i need help.
2007-04-18 11:55:49 · 14 answers · asked by violet h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't worry about it.
you are normal and I'm sure you are lovely.
by the time you're 17 you'll feel a lot more comfortable spending time with boys. enjoy your time at school knowing that your guy is waiting out there for just the right time.
boys feel the same way.
2007-04-18 11:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by lowIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing at just about your age!
In my case, these seemed to be the problems:
1. I was intimidating. I am 6' tall, smart, and I speak up for myself and those who need an advocate. I am outspoken about my beliefs and have a firm hold on what is fair. Boys my age were very scared of someone who was so self-assured.
2. I grew up from first grade with all the guys with whom I associated. Awkward!
3. I was mature and had a "womanly" body. Older men would often talk to me, thinking I was older. 15-year-old boys might FANTASIZE about older women, but they certainly don't want to date them.
When I was through with high school, I found out about numerous guys who had crushes on me but found me too intimidating to ask out. I now have NO problem meeting men (I am 29) and haven't had a problem since I was probably 18.
Hang in there!
2007-04-18 19:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by Kate S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am 15 too and its great u have loads of friends. and theres nothing wrong with u its just that u are scared to ask a boy out. cuz i always thought the boy was suppose to ask u out. and if boys fancied u and never asked u out it means they dont even like u are they scared. and its ok that u have not kissed a boy ur get the chance take ur life slowly it will come to u.
2007-04-18 19:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by hsmlover13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you, and good for you for having friends and hobbies. You will have men in and out of your life for a long time to come. Don't be so sure that you have to have one right now. Boys/men are just trouble and heartache. Don't worry about them to much, just keep doing what you are doing and have fun at your age.
Before you know it, you will be out on your own, going to college, driving a car, doing all sorts of things.
Just have fun with your friends and don't be afraid to try new things. Boys will come and go, but friends can stick with you for a lifetime.
2007-04-18 19:00:04 · answer #4 · answered by pecksun8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys get nervous too, and that's probably why they have never asked you out. Just be patient and go with the flow. I'm 15 and have never kissed a boy either, and there's nothing wrong with it.
2007-04-18 18:59:39 · answer #5 · answered by Irene \m/. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, its not a race. I never even kissed a guy until I was 18 and some people don't even kiss till they get married.
It only depends on when you feel the feelings for someone that itll happen. So relax and enjoy being free
2007-04-18 18:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by DarlaTremere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not too old to have not had a boyfriend yet. If anything you are still too young. Yes I know you don't want to hear that, but it's true.
Just give it time, if you are attractive you won't have a problem getting a boyfriend very soon.
2007-04-18 19:01:37 · answer #7 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should be worried...everything happens for a reason. You have plenty of time to kiss someone and the longer you wait the longer you can find the perfect person to kiss. You dont wanna waste it on a loser and regret it.
2007-04-18 19:00:53 · answer #8 · answered by chelzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, since you go to an all girl's school no guys are around oviously. just go to the movies or mall with your friends and flirt with some cute guys. get their numbers and stuff. and if they like you, then you'll get a boyfriend. good luck!
2007-04-18 19:00:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its because youre not around guys enough
with going to an all girl school. When you hang around them more you get more courage around them.
xVictoria
2007-04-18 18:59:09 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋