i have a boyfriend and he says he loves me and i say it back. he seems a bit obsessed with me and crys if i dont call him or talk to him for even 1 day. i dont want to break his heart because i really like anither guy....what should i do!!!!
2007-04-18 11:38:36 · 20 answers · asked by sidonie c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him to quit being a puss and leave you alone. you put yourself in this mess by telling him you love him back you know.
2007-04-18 11:41:51 · answer #1 · answered by Ray Finkle 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow,
I am glad that he loves you very much. But why are tellin him you love him if you like someone else. Even thoughy you are not going out with the person you like, you are still cheating. You are cheating his heart, and that's not right. If you are really drawn to this that boy, then you should no longer cheat him no more. You should brake it down to him now. But give it more thought before you make your move or you might regret it. If you don't tell now, then it's going to hurt him even more and maybe you for not taking action
2007-04-18 11:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so theres another guy, are your serious about this other guy, or are you just thinking of hooking up with him, to get rid of mr. insecure.
Couple things, if you don't want to be with this guy anymore, break it off with him. But if its his insecurity thats driving you away, sit him down and be honest with him about that. Tell him, that you need him to trust you that you love him, and not to get so upset if you don't talk all the time, or constantly need reassurance from you that everythings alright.
But if you just want out, do it now before things get more involved.
2007-04-18 11:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by Kellie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats worse to him. Going out with a girl whos not interested or get dumped and be a free agent? I mean I would rather be ingle than be with some one in a dead end relationship. Do him justice and just dump him. He might not know your being nice to him but you are.
2007-04-18 11:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by Micro spice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cant stay with him.hopefuly he'll start to like someone else.dont tell him your dumping him for someone else just say you dont really had that same feeling.try to get some space.tell him you need some space for a month or couple weeks.maybe you need your space.does that other guy ike you a lot to.
2007-04-18 11:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by luce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you have out grown this young man. it would profit neither of you a thing by staying together, cuz you would be unsatisfied and he would be living in denial. You've gotta ask yourself too, do you really love him cuz it seem as though you only say it in reply to him
2007-04-18 11:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by Roselle E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should follow your heart and exept the fact that some people will get hurt and the possesive type always end up violent so if you are going to break up with him u should do it in a public place.
2007-04-18 11:42:33 · answer #7 · answered by Rafael C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,
If you really dont love him
dont say you do. It will only
hurt him more. If you dont like
him like that you should break up
with him even if you dont go with
the other guy.
xVictoria
2007-04-18 11:42:09 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't say it back if you don't mean it. if you do mean it im telling you don't leave the one you love for the one you like, trust me you'll regret it. talk to him calmly about the whole "crying if you dont call him back" tell him that you want to talk to him but you need your space.. good luck
2007-04-18 11:45:12 · answer #9 · answered by princesslazyass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably already suspects it and is feeling insecure about the relationship. Break the news to him gently. It's not fair to him to keep stringing him along.
2007-04-18 11:42:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe me u will not find a true love all the time
if it is like what i think
don't let this person
try to be closer to the one who loves u
compare between the2
and go to the one who loves u most
2007-04-18 11:45:56 · answer #11 · answered by maha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋