i was with a guy and he said he loved me nd everything but one day i caught him cheatin on me again!i gave him a second chance and he blew it!i thought we really had something.but guess who hes going with now? MY FRIEND WHO KNOWS I AM NOT OVER HIM!!! comments feel free...
2007-04-18 11:21:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you want to blame him for you mistakes. It's your fault that he is cheating again and breaking your heart, not his. You told him it was ok when you took him back.
Learn from your mistakes and then you won't have to blame others.
2007-04-18 11:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know from experience that men who cheat will always do it and no matter what you do you cant change that i know its heart braking for you right now and i know what your going through you keep thinking why me why doe sent he love me what is so wrong with me what can i change about my self but i will tell you something i learn ed the hard way its not you and there is nothing wrong with you i don't know you but you a prob the most loving person and you deserve better than that and trust me there is better people out there and as for your friend she is not really you friend if she is seeing him that is an unwritten law between friends and I THINK YOU SHOULD PITY HER because she is so low as to do that and call her self your friend and don't worry he will do the same to her
2007-04-18 18:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by blackrose8684 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all I wouldn't of given him a second chance, once a cheat always a cheat! I would of dropped him like hotcakes. Now the friend part, she truly is not a real TRUE, friend, cause if she was she would not be dating someone you apparently still care about, I say you deserve better friends that that,(WITH FRIENDS LIKE THAT YOU DON'T NEED ENEMIES!)
2007-04-18 18:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by rachie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. What a suck place to be. I'm so sorry honey. He probably does love you, but he also loves everybody else. If you don't want someone like that, then you gotta do what it takes to get on with yourself. Scream cry and go to the gym. It sucks, but you'll find someone who makes you happy and doesn't want to cheat.
2007-04-18 18:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by headshrinker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she was a true friend and she knew u still had feelings for him she wouldnt have gone out with him in the first place .... and if i was you i wouldnt give that guy anymore chances
2007-04-18 18:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet_angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were more than generous to give him a second chance. Let someone else have him. You WILL do better.
Everyone that provides monogamy deserves monogamy.
2007-04-18 18:24:49 · answer #6 · answered by brettj666 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that aint no friend u got there thats a mother ****** ***** and i would not be her friend anymore she did that on purpose if she was a real friend she wouldnt go wit him untill u were over him so slap her in the face and say we aint friends no more and dont talk 2 her agian
2007-04-18 18:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by Bianca L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the saying cheat on me once shame on you cheat on me twice shame on me. Do not put yourself through this again. Just think he will cheat on your friend too and she will look like the ***. You will find someone who will not cheat and treat you very well, just give it time.
2007-04-18 18:30:10 · answer #8 · answered by Mandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend is not a friend!!!!!!!! stay away from her she's no good. even if you were over him she still should not be with him. friends do not go with friends ex's whether it be bf's, wives, husbands or lovers! this is an unspoken rule between friends. even if you were to say it's ok, it really is not!!
2007-04-18 18:31:21 · answer #9 · answered by leapyrangels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fool me once shame on you Fool me twice shame on ME
2007-04-18 18:25:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋