me and my boyfriend been together for about 4 months now. at first he asked me to live with him but i turned him down and told him im not ready. well today i asked him if i can live with him cause i am ready to and he told me he is not sure. the only reason why i want o live with him is cause i want to see how serious this relationship is and is welling to do that since he says he love me so much and im the only girl for him. Do u think he is hiding something from me? Or i shouldnt move in with him just yet?
2007-04-18 10:53:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't do it
gw
2007-04-18 10:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by georgewallace78 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he is just scared. Moving in together is a huge step. He still may be a little hurt for you turning him down when he asked you to. He may be wondering what made you change your mind. If you are not sure how serious the relationship is I might advise not to move in with him because once you are living together it would be much harder to get out of the relationship should you decide to do so.
2007-04-18 10:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by Mandie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question has been answered - the relationship is not serious enough that he wants to live with you. Sounds like at first he was full of lust and wanted you 24/7, now that's worn off and he's (at best) not yet sure how far he wants it to go and (at worst) he's not going to buy a cow when he can get milk for free.
2007-04-18 10:59:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
After 4 months I would say no and that you missed out on your opportunity. But wait a little longer and see if the relationship changes when you're not living with him. If it does, then he does have something to hide.
2007-04-18 11:01:18 · answer #4 · answered by Lady_Sweets82 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think he asked you to live with him that time expecting your answer to be no..
Like me even before i got with my boyfriend he wanted to marry me our first year he wouldnt stop talking about it i was barely 18 he was barely 19 well i told him no because we had to get to know each other and we were too young. Well now 2 yrs later i bring it up and he just laughs about it yeah its sad lol
guys just do this expecting you as a woman with more brains to say NO especially being so early in the relationship
what a JERK Lol
2007-04-18 11:01:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You people are backwards. This let's play house mentality is ridiculous when it's proven that a majority of people that live together before marriage are more likely to cheat and divorce.
What makes you think you can beat those odds? If you think he's hiding something from you, obviously you have some issues to deal with. Unless you know for a fact he hiding something. Even then, he has issues to deal with.
2007-04-18 10:58:42 · answer #6 · answered by Rick 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think 4 months is way too soon to be moving in with your bf. I mean really, if he has already asked you once and you've only been together 4 months.......how long were ya'll together b4 he asked. I would say don't move in yet. It's too soon!!
2007-04-18 11:52:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait until he asks you again. Moving in with someone is a BIG step- and NOT a very good method of "testing" a relationship. Give it a couple more months & see what happens. :)
2007-04-18 10:59:49 · answer #8 · answered by Joseph, II 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By living with him will not determine how serious the relationship is. Living with him before marriage will give him total access to the goods without paying the price for it.
Get your own place and if the relationship is serious, he'll ask you to marry him, then you can move in with him when you are married.
2007-04-18 10:57:16 · answer #9 · answered by lwheavenlyangel 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Statistics show that people who live together before marriage have a higher incidence of divorce . Your boyfriend isnt ready yet so be patient. You havent known him that long but I wouldnt bring it up again. Let him do the asking.
2007-04-18 10:57:55 · answer #10 · answered by barthebear 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its only been four months girl. You need to give that stuff time. IF its serious, you will know in time. Don't move in with him just to find out a month later it isn't going to work and you have to move out.
2007-04-18 10:56:56 · answer #11 · answered by Just a girl... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋