how do i know if this guy really means what he says? him and me are good friends. we basically got no one but eachother and that dont include family. when we get the sex urge we have it together. this has been going on for a couple months. now he says he wants to have me to be his girlfriend. he also says he is starting to fall for me.
2007-04-18 09:02:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You messed up when you started having sex with him before you two actually made it official. He will just keep saying he wants you to be his girlfriend now but he doesn't have to actually do that because he's already got that something special from you. Just be friends with him and date someone else. wait for sex though!
2007-04-18 09:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by ms ambitious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Natalia
You need to stop wondering what hes thinking and search your own feelings about him.
You just don't have sex with someone cause your friends.
And too if you guys are haveing sex everytime your together then that tells you right there that it's all about sex.
Friends have fun and haveing fun isn't taking your clothes off.
I think you two need to talk and search out your feelings.
Too if your not 18 or over you shouldn't be haveing sex in the first place. Talking is the best thing to do though and find out what and how he really feels and if talking leads to sex then thats all he wants from you. Hope this advice helps you.. Good Luck.
2007-04-18 09:14:23 · answer #2 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you wait.
Having sex obviously makes u become more attached to the person and everything might seem so perfect right now, like he's the one u want to be with and visa versa, but u never kno what will happen in the future. If you guys end up not staying together then you'll feel alot better knowing u didnt give it up. because u cant take bak having sex with somebody
2007-04-18 09:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by Shana L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a REAL tough thing to answer. You can just mess with his head, as other girls have done to me, and see if he is only in for it for the sex. Some night when you two are just close, just randomly say to him that your horny, or turned on, and see what he says. If it's an answer that makes you really quesiton him, toss him aside, because he may be in it only for sex. I'm holding myself off for that special one, because i only have about probably 4% sex experience, and that's only frenching and making out. I have a guy's brain and i know how bad it can get, and what makes me crave for what girls don't really want to give.
2007-04-18 09:09:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, a guy like this is only looking to get something from you.Don't fall for it.He's gonna say anything you want to hear just to get into your pants.Have self-respect.If he is"starting to fall for you" then he should understand and you will have plenty of time later on when you are married.
2007-04-18 09:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both like each other and like the sex..then go for it!! If he wants you as his girlfriend then he probably likes you alot! As far as love goes...that will take time..don't go jumping into things and jump to conclusions! He probably is falling for you. Let it go naturally and it will all work out!! Good luck!!
2007-04-18 09:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by Siren_Cin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could just ask him how many people he has had sex with if it is a lot he might just want you for sex is he around the same age does he ever flirt with other girls are you really serious about him. think about it
2007-04-18 09:11:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're friends with benefits, and he wants to go further. Trust what he's saying. Talk to him about it, and tell him how you feel. Be really careful; don't lead him anywhere you don't want to go.
2007-04-18 09:08:40 · answer #8 · answered by Trillium 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget the sex. be his gf but tell him how you feel about just having sex. If he wants to just have sex then he is falling for your body and not you.
2007-04-18 09:07:16 · answer #9 · answered by bookworm019 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've had sex, and you're only starting to become boyfriend/girlfriend now?!
2007-04-18 09:09:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋