I know this guy from going into his work and about a month ago he gave me his number,we started calling and texting each other for a while.We never actually went out but ended up in the same pub on saturday night and spoke a little,anyway i was talking to this other guy when he left and i then got a phone call from him inviting me up to his(he still lives at home),his parents were in bed,i was drunk so agreed as i did like him,we snogged for a while then his dad walked in so i he called me a taxi and wouldn`t walk out to the door with me or let me use his loo!!I then sent a sarcastic text saying i got home fine thanx for asking and he then replied saying "your the one who wouldn`t go further",so he was obviously just after sex.do you think he was right to expect it by me agreing to his in the first place?i`m not a one night stand sort of girl and did actually like him and he said the same to me,his behaviour actually surprised me as i thought he was a nice guy,he`s now cold towards me?
2007-04-18 08:52:01 · 53 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i never expected him to want sex,maybe rather naive of me i know as i thought he was just a nice guy.
2007-04-18 08:56:33 · update #1
He sounds like a real prick. Be glad he's cold with you now. The bloke is a muppet
2007-04-18 09:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey do not think you were naive or stupid, he was the one that led you on and made you believe he was a nice guy. Any girl would have fallen for his tricks so please don't be hard on yourself OK babe.
Obviously this guy is so not good enough for you and was only ever after one thing. I know you liked him babe but he is no good for you so maybe next time be a little more cautious before you go back home with a guy.
Good luck babe xxx
2007-04-18 09:00:03 · answer #2 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he wasn't right, but what i can tell you he was only after the sex even though he was a nice guy. You really set your self up because it was late and why would he want to see you at a late hour, not only that you was drunk to. So that say its only about one thing and that is your body. Learn from your mistakes if you really like a guy. Be respectful and wait it out. Let him prove his self to you if you really like a guy to see where they are coming from.
2007-04-18 09:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a right to HOPE for sex,and,maybe he was expecting it, but if he didn't get it,then it's not the end of the world.I'm an oldie,so in my eyes,the girl,as a person would have gone up in my esteem,and next time I asked her out I would take it at her pace.
Rather stupid/naive to take him up on such an offer though
2007-04-18 09:06:20 · answer #4 · answered by keeprockin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only time a guy can "expect" sex is when he pays for it. That's all he wanted, obviously, because he didn't care if you died on the way home since he didn't get any. He's a loser.
Just be careful going home with guys, especially when you're drunk. If his dad hadn't walked in, he might've forced himself on you when you told him no. Look out for yourself!
2007-04-18 09:00:56 · answer #5 · answered by misguidedrose18 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it wasn't right, and you should have never gone to this flakes house. He still lives with his parents? What a loser, he doesn't deserve sex. Don't sell yourself so cheap. You are giving away something that wars have been fought over, do you realize what power the word no holds? It loses all value when you give it none. Good luck
2007-04-18 08:59:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were fortunate to find out what an unpleasant person he is. What a user and a loser he is. I wouldn't bother even thinking about him again. You deserve much better. If a man really cares about a girl, he won't put any pressure at all on her for sex. It is ok to say no. In fact it is good to save yourself until you get married.
2007-04-18 08:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by Birdman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He for sure was not in the right for expecting sex. He's just an A**hole, all there is to it. Guys play fronts all the time to get what they want. That is exactly the reason why you should be hurt by this situation. Just move on.
2007-04-18 08:56:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many men will take your willingness to go to his 'room' as wanting to shag - lol. He sounds like a tool so I wouldn't waste another second thinking about it. If it were me and I was sober enough to string words together (sadly, not always the case) I probably would have agreed but said something to the effect of "I'm not gonna sleep with you". Then, if he was going to say something like 'don't bother', I could be saved the time of having to deal with him at all.
2007-04-18 08:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, this guy sounds like a complete *** hole. Sex was obviously all he was after, because if he really did like you then he wouldn't have been so nasty to you. No-one has the right to expect sex from you, and don't let anyone pressure you into it. In my opinion, you're better off without this guy.
2007-04-18 08:59:11 · answer #10 · answered by katem1992 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you came home with me got into my bed and how did you put it snogged. Ya you send me on my way with blue balls your a tease!!! Like the chick above said you knew what you were doing drinks or not!!! Stop being a C*ck Tease its not nice!!!!
2007-04-18 08:59:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋