My bf & I broke up b/c he ignored me, flirted with other girls in front of me, yelled at me, & eventually told me he didnt wanna be with me anymore even though he had told me he loved me. I gave everything i had to him & it was very hard for me to get over him.
Yesterday, my good guy friend and my ex both witnessed me get harshly verbally insulted by this random guy. My guy friend started to defend me & mouth the guy who was cursing at me off. But, my ex didnt say anything, he just stood there.
Now I just got off the phone with my ex & he told me that he apparently met the guy later on that day & cursed him out b/c it enraged him that the dude said those thigns to me.
Now I'm wondering, does he actually give 2 shits about me & the way I was insulted by that guy? Or is he just saying this b/c my other guy friend defended me & he now wants to draw attention to himself and act like the hero? If he actually cared, why didnt he say something to the guy sooner?
2007-04-18 08:38:16 · 2 answers · asked by carrie i 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Settle that heart down, relax... lol still love him so much don't you? Give it up kid, honest you ruin'd the relationship just as bad as he did. Understand love isn't enough. Seems you just gave it away, BAD.... you don't just say hey hers my heart try not to break it.... the other thing is I car'd enough to not run over a dog the other day, does that make me a hero? Besides your friend is the real hero, him... not even close. Realize that if he really care'd about you as much as you cared about him, you guys wouldn't be at this point right now. Use your brain, it takes compassion and passion to make a relationship work, these are the actions of love, understand. And the fact that it was after the relationship, behind your back, before he ever show'd it to you, shows he isn't worth his love. Chances are the reason he held back, is the reason he held back when he was in the relationship, he doesn't understand/nor love himself, or his purpose. See you can only really truly feel for a person, as much as you feel for yourself. Which is how come you mess'd the relationship up, he need'd to feel that he earn'd the love, but you just gave it away.... people need to work hard to earn was truly worth earning, if they get it for free, its cheapin. Try not to cheapin your love in the future. I think all your really wanting right now is to understand what the heck happen between you too, that way you can finaly forgive yourself, for the failure. Yes we all have to, if we love them. Then you have to go thru the steps of forgiving him, which is hard if you don't understand whats going on. Love is a symbol man uses to sum up, all the feelings we have for an object/entity/person. He love'd you because he had to of felt something for you, obviously not enough to make him happy thou. Actions speck louder then words, and his actions, speck of game.... cut him out, let it burn, learn, and keep moving forward.....
2007-04-19 03:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me he is a player. Forget him and move on.
2007-04-19 10:40:00 · answer #2 · answered by herbs411_42719 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋