ok i have a huge crush on my sisters fiance, i liked him way b4 they got together but after they got together my feelings for him didnt go away they got stronger, wut should i do. my sis thinks im over him but im not. i dont want to tell her cause she is really in love with him
2007-04-18 08:33:41 · 17 answers · asked by crissy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm sorry but you will have to learn to live without him...it's the noble thing to do.
2007-04-18 08:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by nin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should do your best to stay away from this situation. He did choose your sister for a reason or he would be with you! No doubt the reason you are feeling stronger feelings is that he's also around more & kinda like "in your face" more than before, but you have to let go & realize it's not going to happen between the two of you. Try to stay away when you know he'll be around. I'm sure there are many other guys available out there for you to choose from. Just know this is a Do Not Touch situation & by all means don't hurt your sister by telling her how you feel. I don't know how old any of you are nor even if everything is a final decision. Until there is a marriage, nothing is written in stone. But please don't tear yourself apart by wanting something that's not fair play. Go out & find someone you can call your own & it will make for a much better family relationship all around. Try to live your life on the "do unto others" & you'll be a much happier person. I KNOW you can find someone who will make you happy, just give it time & really put forth an effort to make things right for your own satisfaction. You CAN do it!!
2007-04-18 09:01:53 · answer #2 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million. She's have been given one component top, the Jonas Brothers are grotesque. 2. do no longer subject approximately it, its a piece. they are going to the two strengthen out of it quickly. do no longer make a great deal out of it. which will merely make it worst. 3. they are actually not real siblings, so it won't count. Its in comparison to there extremely going to get marry 4. They should not be relationship or thinking approximately relationship til a minimum of 13. 5. each and every little youngster has somebody they think of there going to "marry" or like. :) she would have the ability to recover from it, its a piece. :) good good fortune! P.S. even nevertheless that's form of unusual she calls him her "guy", I recommend c'mon. Shes like 9?
2016-12-29 07:28:07 · answer #3 · answered by lenart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything to her. Telling her won't change anything, just hurt her & make her suspisious of you. You have got to work on getting rid these feeling, if that means staying away from them for a while. Maybe focus on a hobby, or getting a b/f of your own. Something to occupy your time.
2007-04-18 08:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by atlchick1983 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So how about another planet..?
This is wacko..DUDE are you guys seeing eachother..?
I sure hope not..I think you pretty much HAVE to push yourself
as much as possible to not dwel on these feelings..it's not healthy for you and what about your sister..? put yourself in her place..You like him..Did you two ever mess around..?
All I know is that THEY are getting married and I believe you HAVE to stop concentrating on what you can't have have and be happy for your SISTER.....................
2007-04-18 09:30:36 · answer #5 · answered by Unbreakable Me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep your paws to yourself. He has made a committment to your sister and you should keep a respectful distance between you.
She is your sister and her feelings as family come first, not yours. Does not matter who liked him first, he loves you sister and that my friend should be enough.
2007-04-18 08:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by Curly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur feelings got stronger coz u came to know him better now ... i suggest let them live in peace n look a BF for urself somewhere else.. i wudnt tolerate that from my sister
2007-04-18 08:53:35 · answer #7 · answered by RCD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok to sleep with him. i'm sleeping with my wifes sister and it's great. just enjoy the ride and try not to create a bunch of drama
2007-04-19 01:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by smallpenislongtongue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are definitely in a very difficult situation.you are torn between your sister & yourself..its better not to tell her that you like her boyfriend, always remember blood is thicker than water.
2007-04-18 13:42:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it, he is with your sister and family is way more important than some guy.....
2007-04-18 08:58:53 · answer #10 · answered by slim27 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋