2007-04-18 05:32:59 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Learn to use correct grammar and wait until she's ready.
2007-04-18 05:36:11 · answer #1 · answered by sofia 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm not sure how long you have had your relationship with your gf. But some people believe in waiting. I can say that you can grow in a different way with that kind of person than the way you normally would do, ( sex in a relationship). I have a best friend that is a guy, we do not have a sexual relationship at all. I know this sounds impossible to most but you can love someone and everything about them without it. If you have never tried this, put the breaks on the sex. See her for what she is about. You will not regret anything in the long run. And you will spare the emotional hurt if it didn't work out. My friend and I are going strong 1 year. Good luck!
2007-04-18 05:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want things to go right, why not be patient. You may not know everything that has happened to her in the past. Let her come out of her shell. I had the same situation happen to me, my girlfriend didn't want to have sex because she still had fears of being abused. If you love her then respect her and her decisions. Some women it takes time. Patience is Virtue. Good Luck.
2007-04-18 05:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by delnquent24 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get used to cold showers. That, or if you can't live without a sexual relationship, find a new girlfriend.
2007-04-18 05:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by danl747 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
vivek, I don't think you chose to be her friend for as superficiala thing as sex only. She must be having certain other qualities also. Love her for that and give respect to her feelings.
Wait till she is ready mentally, emotionally and physically also if she is not yet 18.
Never force yourself on others, specially when the matterconsists of the other's choice also.
2007-04-18 05:54:58 · answer #5 · answered by sanjay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, Sorry to hear that but maybe she is not ready as of yet. If you have been together for a short while maybe she is not ready you should maybe give your girlfriend some time, don't let her think that you are forcing her into anything. Talk to her and tell her how you feel. Maybe she wants to tell you something but she maybe scared or nervous. Talk to her and explain how you feel.x
2007-04-18 05:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by ♫мёģąŋ♫ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Deal with it, there is no law that says a woman must have sex. If you really care for her and love her you will respect her wishes and wait for sex. If all you want from her is sex then do her a favor and find someone else.
2007-04-18 05:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing not to do is get mad.. you just need to show her that you care about her and not sex. if you can do that then one day she will accept to have sexual relationship... just remember its only going to happen if they want it to.
2007-04-18 05:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone if she doesn't want to have sex.... neither of you are married and should not be having sex anyways..
She sounds like a nice girl being pressured by a not so nice horny guy
2007-04-18 05:52:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Refuse for now, or forever?
If you two want different things, break up. Its nobodies fault, it just is what it is.
2007-04-18 05:52:13 · answer #10 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋