what can i do to get over my brother's death at age 29 of liver disease caused by alcohol?

Answer 1

You should celebrate your brother's life, remember how much he meant to you and your family, and then realize that the world and you will move on.

It sounds cold, but it's really not. There's not a time line, because everyone takes their own time to heal. Discuss your grief with close friends and your family - this will help. Join a charity or not-for-profit organization and help people with alcohol addictions. This will keep you occupied and you can take pride in the fact that you're helping other people learn from your brother's mistakes.

Your brother probably wasn't a bad person, he just got caught up in his own problems and couldn't find a better way to cope before it was too late. This is nobody's fault - especially not yours.

Please do not become a vigilante where alcohol is concerned. Realize that people make mistakes and that it's just an unfortunate part of life. You will feel much better about yourself and your brother if you choose to help others find the light at the end of the tunnel that he just couldn't quite reach.

Answer 2

I'm sorry for your loss.
There is nothing you can do to mend a broken heart, but you may want to attend therapy sessions. Personally, that wouldn't work for me, but you could also keep a journal. Write about good memories between you and your brother. It is hard, I know. But, just flow with it and keep your friends by your side. It will all work out. I'm positive.

Answer 3

The death of someone we love, a close friend or family member, is an event we all have to face sometime. Learning to survive the feelings of sadness and loss is a process that is normal and usually time-limited. The process Involves both emotional and behavioral reactions. It takes us through the initial response of shock and sadness, through acceptance and understanding, and eventually to the rebuilding of our lives. There are many ways, some better than others, in which people learn to adjust to the death of a loved one

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Answer 5

Honey,its not one of those situations where somebody else can help you through it ,its you who can help yourself i mean i know its difficult but try to empathize and see of living a diseased life going through all that pain and sufferings without all that pleasures and enjoyment a man of 30 goes through.I don't know if you believe in God or not but i promise you brother is happy where he is now than where you want him to be .My brother has lung cancer and the pain he goes through i wish my enemies don't get that i know people don't believe this but heaven is always in need of good people and i promise you his soul rejoices in heaven .Please don't be sad there is time for everything ,time to cry ,time to laugh if you still sit by his belongings and cry or visit his grave stop he does not lie there for he is in better place .Communicate with your friends,and if needed talk to a counselor.Believe me your brother wont be happy if he sees you being sad .

Answer 6

Accept the fact that his decisions led to the disease and he chose to go down that path. Learn from his experience and take it day by day.

Answer 7

you have to mourn...but don't isolate yourself.. talk with your friends (who may feel awkward at first).....keep talking to them.....

go out and do things with them.....

i know after i had a miscarriage..i was glad my friends drug me out of the house to go dancing... (not immediately after like a month or more after).... it gave me something else to concentrate on rather than wallowing in sorrow.... which is easy to get caught up in......

if things get real tough seek help...see a counselor.....

i am sorry for your loss....

Answer 8

contact your local hospice. they have counselors and groups that will help you work through your grief.