I am not sure if this is healthy for me. To be so involved with her parens. She is a very big mommys girl. To make things worse one night when I was drunk I told her I love you, even though she told me first I love you this much showing with her fingers. Any advice on what this situation is and is this healthy.
2007-04-18 05:01:45 · 14 answers · asked by mike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Healthy for YOU? If anything, her parents should be worried about the health of their daughter. At 25 years old, you sound very immature and that's not only because your dating a teenager?
It's also because your not sure if you should be involved with her parents, especially if she is a Mommy's girl. If her mother is a big part of her life, then you have to accept that like an adult.
Then you got drunk and told her you loved her. You obviously don't love her if that made things worse.
Your situation is ridiculous. It's time to grow up. All you should be doing is just having a good time and enjoying life with any woman you date right now. If you hang out with her parents, then enjoy them too. If your not happy and you don't like the way things are going, then get lost.
2007-04-18 05:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If You don't love her then no this isn't healthy for you or for her & you should break up with her asap the sooner the better ....but if You do love her then just take it as it comes at least You know she really does love you. If you are freaking out about meeting her parents so soon i wouldn't worry too much some people just have a more open relationship with their parents then others go with what you feel is right good luck :o)
2007-04-18 05:14:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's healthy.....to teenagers, you know? I think it sounds like you need to move on to people in your own age group. I've never, never had my family meet someone a week after we started dating. She sounds very immature and if she's a mommy's girl, you could be in for it. If I were you, I'd move on. Meet others whom will share you same kind of maturity and views etc....good luck!
2007-04-18 05:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why it would not be healthy for you to meet her parents. She must come from a close family and values her parents opinions about her choice of bloke. You may need to be asking yourself of your intentions, and why YOU personally are so worried to be meeting her family. Relationships are soooo much easier if everyone gets on together!
2007-04-18 05:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it' all depends. you should go with your gut instinct but if you really do love this girl, then you'll have to meet the parents eventually.
She's over 18 and probably in college, which wouln't make it as bad...but if she is still living with mommy and daddy, this that would be a big no-no.
2007-04-18 05:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice. Tell her it's not working out. Find a girl that isn't stuck up her parents butt. And from now on don't date anyone that either can't get into a bar or still lives at home.
2007-04-18 05:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by jimapalooza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the whole family involved. it's every guy's fantasy to sleep with the mother and the daughter if they're both hot, so you could be experiencing every guy's fantasy.
you remember the song, stacy's mom, by fountain of wayne? if she looks like rachel hunter, you know you'd be tapping it all night long.
2007-04-18 05:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really care for this girl, you should meet the parents and enjoy yourself. Just relax... it will be just fine.
2007-04-18 05:07:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your p_ _ _ _ whipped, go and find a real woman and stop playing with little girls that still cleave to mommy for support.
2007-04-18 05:24:36 · answer #9 · answered by yunchi30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't stress, it's good to have involvement with the parents. as long as they like you don't worry about it.
2007-04-18 05:07:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋