I'm 20 and my girlfriend is 19. We will have been together 4 years in August. I love her with all my being and more and she equally loves me back. We have been through rough times but we always stayed strong and helped each other through the fire. She's everything to me. I have more faith in her than over half my family members. I was wondering can a relationship like this still be here years from now?
2007-04-18 04:47:57 · 21 answers · asked by Wise Guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It can as long as the fire in your relationship never burns out. It depends on how long you want it to last, and if you want your relationship with her to be your only and last. You will have to fight hard for it, but it can happen. As long as neither of you give up on it, and if its true love. Which obviously it is, so congrats and hopefully it will last forever! Just continue to fight for the relationship and treat her right, and hopefully she does the same!
2007-04-18 04:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its good that you guy shave been together like this and love each other, but honestly no one can guarantee that it will last forever. Very few couples do, but some have made it strong. I think it all depends on the couple, if you are willing to get through the ups and downs with her no matter what, and she is too, and you all are strong in your relationship and confident with each other I dont see why it couldnt last, but you cant say yes and you cant say no because every couple is different. Some couples cant last a week but then you have some that have been kicking strong for 70 years. I personally think that if you all continue this the way you have, there is no reason for you guys to break up. Good Luck
2007-04-18 04:54:57 · answer #2 · answered by cosmetologistbeauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the people, Some are truly in love.. Others think they are in love. It's when problems that arise and test you that you truly find out how strong you are as a couple, Just wait it out and if you can make it through hard times and there will be hard times, Nor relationship is easy just bare in mind , When the times get tough and you are still together then just know you are really in love and you have a great chance to last alot of years from now
2007-04-18 04:55:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you cant say she doesn't love you equally back. No such thing. If you guys are meant to be together then it will last forever. There might be obstacles thrown in each others way and it wont be easy but it is possible. I know couples that have been together since they were at age 16. Its if both of you want this then you both will work at it. No matter what temptations or obstacles come across you guys...you both have to be strong and want each other and you guys will survive.
2007-04-18 04:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by LAP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I relate to your situation. My ex and I have been on and off for 4 years as well. He went into the Navy and told me that it was the biggest mistake of his life and he wanted to be home with me, well now we are nearing the end and he decided to re-enlist. He has changed into another person that I hardly know anymore. Needless to say, we have gone our separate ways, but still love eachother. Thats just what life is... its all change, especially when you are this young. But this is just my situation, things could or may be different for your situation :) It sounds to me like you have a loving partner and I'm happy for you!
2007-04-18 05:01:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, at the end of the day, nothing really lasts forever. when you are a teenager you are suppose to fall in love and experience that rush of excitement and happiness when are with that special person. you're suppose to make mistakes and do better next time. if one day you meet that special someone and you two love each other then that is fantastic! love that person and treat them well. you shouldn't assume the worst but you should always be prepared for it.
2016-05-18 00:41:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your relationship will not be the same years from now. I'm not saying you won't be together years from now. But all lasting relationships grow and change over the years. They need to in order to last.
Good luck to you both!
2007-04-18 04:52:55 · answer #7 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will end quicker....to many outside influences to decide if ur young relationship will suceed or not ...ppl do tend to look for better fields...to be stuck with one person at young age is just temporary strong now but not later everything changes everyday
2007-04-18 04:54:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two keep this same mentallity and keep loyal to each other and never doubt each other than sure it will work out for years but some arguements are healthy in a long-term relationship.
2007-04-18 04:54:09 · answer #9 · answered by The One & Only 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom got married to my dad when she was 15 and he was 17, (my mom was pregnant with me) and i am 16 now and my mom and dad are still together, they have been married for 17 years. they got married very young and they are going to be with each other forever. i think that if you really love the person and they really love you back there is no way it cant last forever.
2007-04-18 04:57:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋