2007-04-18 02:52:26 · 34 answers · asked by armybabi18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well my husband is in the Army and in July he has to leave for a year overseas. SO I sorta know how it feels to have to wait on someone that you love. The answer is really simple. If you love him and he is the only man that you want in your life then Yes wait on him. If you don't love him then tell him that you should put your relationship on hold or break it off and see what happens when he comes back. I can't imagine loving anyone else but my Husband. He is my world and even though he will be away for a year, Absence makes the heart grow stronger.
2007-04-18 02:58:18 · answer #1 · answered by brookewookie26 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes, If you think he is your one true love then wait a lifetime for him hes probably there not just for him but for you but also he is thinking about you right now i can guarantee it!!!
And it wont be very much fun training for the army and all that other stuff if he doesn't have much to look forward to come back to...But if you don't really love him you just have a crush or whatever you have to put your feelings first and don't stay with him for pity...Just follow your heart decisions are hard but your hear will guild you through the rough times!!! Hope i helped
2007-04-18 03:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why might you even question wanting to be with somebody that treats you like gold. i understand that is confusing to be far off from the only which you love yet whilst he gets decrease back basically think of how plenty greater your courting would be. Relationships are packed with trials and the greater you triumph over the greater you're as a pair and which will help as you struggle by using existence understanding which you have somebody you may anticipate to diminish back you. There are not that many human beings available so carry directly to what you have have been given and look at your self fortunate!
2016-10-22 12:23:47 · answer #3 · answered by fugere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are questioning it then no, if you wanted to be with him alone then you wouldnt be asking this question, so it leaves me to think that you are very young. Dont sit there and wait on him just bc he is in the army, Ask yourself " if he moved to a far away state would you wait then?" that will give you the answer that you need.
2007-04-18 02:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a solider. If you feel that he is what you want then wait for him and pray for him. If he is not what you want at least wait until he gets back and tell him face to face. The last thing any solider wants to get in the mail is a negative letter. It's just as hard for him as it is for you. Keep that in your mind also. Probably worse if he is deployed. If you don't want to be with him keep positive letters going out to him until he gets back that is just coming form a solider, because we do not need any more morale issues than we already have over there.
2007-04-18 03:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by Trent 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends how serious you two are in your relationship and how old you both are. Only you can make that decision. If you feel like your relationship is going somewhere then why not? Wait for him. But if it's not that serious and you don't like him that much then don't. When he left did he say for you to wait for him?
I would definitely wait for my guy..I wouldnt have to even think about it..but that's because I am truly in love. If you really loved him you wouldn't have to be here asking us.
2007-04-18 03:08:18 · answer #6 · answered by Jocelyn's mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you Love him? I waited 2 years for my girl friend but didn`t work out so my advice break up before the suffering came for both of you ,anyways you don`t sounds so in love ,love when is real last forever what you got is just passion think about it
2007-04-18 03:04:13 · answer #7 · answered by sinner so what ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you girl, I had a supposed BF who went away and thought that I should wait, I really didnt think that was going to work out for me. He asked me just once did I have sedx with someone and I was going to tell the truth but he quickly said he didnt want to know. Have you tried talking to your BF about how you feel. Do you want to be with him forever or something!!! You need to sit back and think it out in your best intrest and then let him know.
2007-04-18 02:58:46 · answer #8 · answered by MS. CRANKY 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you want to wait for him? Are you willing to put up with him being deployed and sent off?
If ya'll love each other, he will need you to be there and support him. Getting deployed is hard, and you need someone to be there for you and understanding when you come back.
You know what the Army brings, are you willing to stay there and be supportive?
2007-04-18 02:57:16 · answer #9 · answered by Mami 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sound like your looking for permission from us. That would be entirely up to you. I'd say wait. But from military experience, He may not wait for you. Especially if he's overseas.
2007-04-18 03:02:12 · answer #10 · answered by Highbeam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋