This guy asked me out and my sister kinda liked him but i really liked him too. I really want to break up with my current boyfriend for him but my sister says I'm selfish. I told her that even if i did say no to the guy, it would'nt make him like her anymore than me. Plus now she acts really depressed. Help!!
2007-04-18 02:46:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Agree with the previous, blood is thicker then water. Later in life your sister will play a role that no person on earth could do. I dont know why your dumping your old boyfriend for this new fella anyway.
If there isnt anything wrong with your current boyfriend you shouldnt really drop him just cause you think the grass might be greener on the other side, ack what is with this new generation.
Either way good luck with sorting it out
2007-04-18 02:52:29 · answer #1 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from someone who knows, RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN from that GUY!! No good will come from this uncomfortable situation. People can become really selfish about their own feelings when it comes to matters of the heart. Brace your heart for anything because if your sister is acting that way then there's no telling how far she'd go and personally I feel that sacrificing your family and friends for a man never works out.
2007-04-18 10:00:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey gurl!!i have the same problem right here!my sister kinda like my boyfriend!and i m totally desprate,what u have 2 do is u will have to talk 2 ur boyfriend and if he doesent tell the truth or over react then he is obviously cheating u and there is no point in keeping him as a boyfriend,if he really likes u he will love ya till the very end,if u feel desprate just have fun with ur friends,tell someone or ur best friend about this problem and ask them for comfort,i am sure u will be happy and not thinking about this too much!trust me..thats what i m doing,but its okay now for me and him,because he loves me,
hope that helps gal!
elsa :)
2007-04-18 10:02:46 · answer #3 · answered by elsa brittany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually had the same situation a few years ago. My sister and I were really close. We became friends with this guy and we both liked him. He liked me. I went for it, even though I knew she didn't want me to. She didn't talk to me for a long time. It took me a while to win back her trust. I was with the guy for a while, and it was nice, but NOT worth it.
No guy is worth that.
Now I'm with someone even better for me AND my sister and I have our relationship back!
2007-04-18 09:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by Peace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would chose my sister(without a doubt), but then again I'm in the fortunate posision to have a great relationship with my sister. We are very close, and she would probably not stand in my way if the guy likes me more.
Just try talking to her, maybe she'll relise that clinging to the guy won't make him like her more.
2007-04-18 09:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by MB1810 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never and i mean Never put a man before your family. If ur sister likes him then leave it be. neither one should be bothered with him. cause u if choose him its likely ur sister will still flirt with him cause she still wants him then one thing might lead to another n thats wont be good and if ur sister talks to him he likes you so he'll flirt with you n that wont be good either so instead of causing all these problems X him out right away
2007-04-18 10:00:27 · answer #6 · answered by Nukie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should jus not go for him...one you should not break up with ur bf to go with him jus cuz u like him, think of ur bfs feelings first he probably likes u way more the then other guy. the other guy for all u noe only likes u for ur physical features or wants to get with u to have sex with u. # 2 talk to ur sister about him he is not worth it to be feeling depressed about ...there is alot of guys out there jus waiting to find sumone like her
2007-04-18 09:54:27 · answer #7 · answered by vanessa g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl no boy is worth the relationship you and your sister have. both of yall need to leave him alone. He aint worth it. Dont brake up with your boyfriend to go with him. He might look good, but looks aint everything, it matter how that treat you.
2007-04-18 09:52:46 · answer #8 · answered by shayla_aka_bigbird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of yall forget him. You don't want to mess up your relationship with your sister because of some guy.
2007-04-18 09:50:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't go there, it is unfortunate, but you just really should't go there. I am sorry, i know that bites...good luck
I do believe if you arent happy in your current relationship break up with him, just not for the other guy.
2007-04-18 09:49:37 · answer #10 · answered by vickie2391 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋