2007-04-18 02:26:56 · 9 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm in a long distance relationship and it's going very well. If it's a long distance relationship from the beginning it Will be easier.
But both must be committed and you must trust one another. And always have the weekend planned when you see one another because then you just have so much more time and so much more fun.
It really works.
Good luck.
2007-04-18 02:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I AM in a long-distance relationship, and have been for over a year. It works well because we trust each other and have worked really hard to make it work. We see each other in real life about once a month, but at the beginning of the relationship it was purely long-distance and we didn`t meet for almost a year. It`s not easy, but it DOES work for certain people. We`re still together now and going strong, and he`s moving so we can be closer together.
People who say that they NEVER work are just clumping everyone together. If two people are truly in love and want to make a relationship work, ANYTHING is possible. :)
2007-04-18 09:33:42 · answer #2 · answered by dragonfly_soup 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are very difficult. I have done it before, but we had been together a while before the separation, and new that it wouldn't be permanent. (I left for college.) I wouldn't recommend it if the distance is too great or if you didn't already have a solid relationship built. Also, if it's a permanent separation and you don't forsee any reunion soon, I would probably pass on it.
2007-04-18 09:33:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well im kinda in one and its going to get worse but were sticking togther. right now we live about 70 miles apart. which isnt bad. but in june she heads to irac and i wont see her for at least 6 months if not more. but at the same time we love each other so much that we are just chilling until she gets back. we both trust each other where we dont worry about the other cheating. we are spending as much time as we can right now cause we know its going to turn into a email relationship for a while. it works but both people have to put in an effort.
2007-04-18 09:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by midnight78dhs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been in one and it is not worth it. Not only are you living with constant temptation but at the same time you are living with the uncertainty of whether or not the other person is resisting those same urges. A few years back me and my GF of 2.5 yrs broke up about six months into our first year in college because she was going to school in FL and I was in CA. To make matters worse her family moved back to AZ after she graduated so there was no way we would meet up again during holidays. We both looked at the situation and mutually decided to bring that chapter to a close. It was incredibly difficult for the both of us but at the end of the day let's keep it real, there is a lot of life to live and people to meet.
2007-04-18 09:35:12 · answer #5 · answered by Adapted_For_The_Screen 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes... why not. millions do it.. and are happy.. they can chat about anything they want..dont have to be intimidated, you can can end a relationship with the push of a button and no arguement about it..
2007-04-18 09:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because they rarely work, and if you can't spend real time, one on one, doing things with another person, you can't truly get to know them well.
2007-04-18 09:32:31 · answer #7 · answered by joe b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am in one at the moment and it was not really any choice --- as soon as we spoke there was (and still is) a connection and we knew we are meant for each other
2007-04-18 09:30:22 · answer #8 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it never ever works believe me i know personal experience
2007-04-18 09:36:06 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋