2007-04-18 02:24:28 · 13 answers · asked by Geoff t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no its not true --- im overweight and my lady (who by the way is exceptional in every respect) cares for me very much ---- it truly is about who you are
2007-04-18 02:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Depends on the woman! Some of us like "chunky" guys! And it's your personality that counts, really. It's how you carry yourself. If you feel that you have something to offer, if you think you have other things to give to a relationship and it's not all physical - then others will think the same of you! If you are confident and kind, stylist and funny, generous and manerable, you will have NO problem attracting women. Look up ways to flirt, find out what women like..etc. Just believe in yourself and do things that make you feel good and sometime that might mean exercise. Life is a mind game. Play hard.
2007-04-18 02:32:27 · answer #2 · answered by Cutegirlnameliola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think so. I won't say I don't like skinny guys, but I prefer the ones whith a little more body, but not obese. It's whats in your heart that counts anyway. I wish ppl would stop judging others from the outside and start looking from the inside out!!!
2007-04-18 02:29:51 · answer #3 · answered by Zel B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very untrue. I`ve been with a heavy guy for over a year, and I`m very in love with him, and very attracted to him AND his body. He has an amazing personality, a great sense of humour and can always cheer me up when I`m down. It`s personality that counts. Plus, I`m more attracted to "chunky" guys, I find them sexier than guys with muscles (which are a turn-off for me).
2007-04-18 02:46:19 · answer #4 · answered by dragonfly_soup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No some women like that or find that attractive especially if you have a lot of humor and a good personality. All of the heavier guys i know pull alot of ladies because they got all that and they dress real flyy and know how to respect a lady.
2007-04-18 02:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by La-La 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will find someone but you have to work on it. i was about 350lbs and i was tired of being overweight and feeling like I'd never find love. that was a year and a half ago. now I'm 185lbs with 4% total body fat and I've found the woman of my dreams. I'm not saying go out and change who you are, but feel better about yourself and other people will start to notice that. it just takes time and effort.
2007-04-18 02:41:26 · answer #6 · answered by Johnathan m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not completely.
You get three strikes. Being overweight is your first.
What do you score with your other strikes? Do you make it up by being rich, smartly dressed, funny, intelligent, charming, classy, or something else positive?
I'm 5'6", and at my most was 220lb.
One really odd thing I notices when I started losing weight, was being incredibly suspicious of the first smiling eye contact I got from a pretty girl. "What does she want?"
To my surprise, the answer turned out to be "Me".
You could also try to losing weight.
2007-04-18 02:42:36 · answer #7 · answered by Vitruvius 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, but you have to have something else to offer. Money, ambition, talent, something else besides good looks that will attract a decent woman. Work on those, or you could just hit the gym. Maybe both!
2007-04-18 02:28:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
no that's bs. i've seen heavy/fat guys with their gf. i've been dating a guy for 6 yrs who is heavy/fat
2007-04-18 02:28:42 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet Pea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that is absolutely not true it does not matter for most women what you look like it is how you treat us
2007-04-18 02:32:46 · answer #10 · answered by DMY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋