i've been crying over my ex-boyfriend what should i do?

Answer 1

Sweetie,keep in mind why he is in fact an ex,and not a boyfriend.It will take a while to completely get over him.You should do something you have always wanted to but never got the chance to do for whatever reason.This will,make you realise that you dont need to have a man in your life,to be happy and fulfilled.You can find that fulfillment deep within yourself if you simple do things to bring it out.Right now,the pain seems as if it going to last forever.It will not.Live each day for each day,dont look back and dont look too far ahread.Arrange a girls night out,and get old your old pictures.Take these pictures out with you,and reminesce about those times.Time will heal your pain.It seems as if nothing will,I know.However,it does.It will take some time,but it does heal the pain.Dont rush yourself to get over him,as it takes time to genuinely get over someone.Also,dont jump into rebound relationships.So many get hurt this way.You are merely trying to replace what you had with your ex,and that is impossible as each relationship is different.Not only will you end up hurting again,but so will the other person involved.Live for you!Dont live for boyfriends or ex's.Live for yourself.Sometimes,simply reflecting and mourning the loss of that relationship is the best cure of all.Allow yourself to cry.Go for a walk along a trail,i urge you not to go alone but have a very close friend walk with you.Sometimes the simplest things can make you feel better.Dont force yourself to keep the pain inside.This will only,make you more upset and make the pain worse,and then you will release it in a way that more than likely isnt very healthy.It will get better.Good luck hun,and have a good day!

Answer 2

Hi it's ok to cry, Crying helps you get over stuff.Infact i think the more you cry it eases the pain away and soon you won't want to cry any more.Look back at the good times and instead of cry about it,look forward to better times ahead of you in a much more rewarding relationship.It's really not your fault that this din't work regardless of how you might feel,stuff happens and life goes on.It takes time though but when we take each day at a time,Time in itself helps heal all wounds.You'll be just fine i know this cause I've been there and i know how it feels it took almost 3-4 months to totally stop cyring but it helped me become stronger and better.Look inward and see where you might have done better,check for mistakes and resolve to be a better person in your next relationship.It's going to come, so cry if you want to but soon you'll pick up your pieces and get up and go! and you'll be stronger.i promise you'll be fine.Take care and i hope i helped some.!

Answer 3

if a boy makes your cry then hes not worth it dont learn the hard way sweetie if its love your looking for then move on if its his attention (which doesnt seem like love) is what your after then dont give up if you want him back really really bad then dont get needy guys hate that be yourself around him and hope he finds what he loves about you or move on k LOVE IS ONLY WHEN YOU CRY TEARS OF JOY NOT HURT LOVE BABY BUBBLES

Answer 4

Did you break up with him??
Remember, you dont wanna fall into the 3 fates of the human heart:
1. Want what you cant have
2. Dont appreciate it when you have it
3. dont know what you have until it's gone

just move on, time heals all

Answer 5

If I had more information then I would know what to tell you. But the only thing I can tell you is stop crying.

Answer 6

well it takes time to get over someone. in the meantime, keep yourself occupied. go out with friends or join a new club. you'll feel better soon.

Answer 7

You really love him, don't you? Well, maybe its the time to forget the past and keep on moving forward... Maybe he's not the one, and there is someone out there is waiting for you..

Answer 8

you should have a friend who is close to you and go out and a lunch or dinner just to clear your mind and have a good time w/o thinking of him keep busy you will be ok

Answer 9

pray.
it says in the bible that if you ask Jesus he said he WILL give you the desires of your heart...that could be comfort, hope, a reason for living, anything.
He said if you ask for anything in my name i will answer.
maybe you're not a Christian but that's OK...why not try if it might work?
I am a very convinced that there is power in prayer...it worked for me it can work for you.
why not give it a chance?

Answer 10

go to every funeral and cry over something else xD
let time heals u..still lots of guys out there..chill..