2007-04-18 00:42:14 · 19 answers · asked by WESEWE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually, there was a study that most mistrust in a couple comes from the worry that youre going to be dumped.
The feeling is always present in anyone that has ever been dumped and the cause of the mistrust usually happens like this;
Say one person in a relationship was cheated on in a past relationship and than dumped. So the person they are with does something that reminds them of the person that cheated on them, this could be anything really, and there is instantly distrust.
And vice versa. Say you dated a liar, you find about one thing your partner might have lied about, or you just dont believe them, and bam no trust.
Most problems dont actually come from real lies or real adultery, it comes from baggage, and the more you have, the more distrust youre full of.
2007-04-18 00:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by mettophobic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lies, dishonesty, being evasive and withholding I think are the main cause for mistrust. Been there before and had to end a relationship with a person I thought was my soul mate. Very disturbing and hard to do but trust was broken. Without trust in a relationship you really don't have a chance.
2007-04-18 07:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by kidvid 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a grown and full adult men or women know that love and sex are two different thing's . one is a spiritual need and one is a phisical need. that's tha couse of the mistrust! phisical needssssss
2007-04-18 07:48:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women.
2007-04-18 07:48:27 · answer #4 · answered by Desperate Loser 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Insecurity in oneself
2007-04-18 07:56:09 · answer #5 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lies, i hate them, they made me not trust my partner, now if he's on the phone and goes into the other room, i freak, even though he di this when we first got together, it just cos he hates talking with others in the room and he can't stand still for a minute when he on the phone and he knows it winds me up so he goes in the other room
2007-04-18 07:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by white_funny_girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Screwing around either in the past or the present. By either party.
2007-04-18 07:46:48 · answer #7 · answered by thirsty mind 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It start with oneself. Trust is an active commited act.
2007-04-18 07:45:46 · answer #8 · answered by davis c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would have to say not trusting yourself. If you cant trust yourself to do what is right in a relationship then how could you trust your mate!
2007-04-18 07:54:59 · answer #9 · answered by Scottie_E. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lying.
2007-04-18 07:45:29 · answer #10 · answered by Joe Bostonian 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋