I liked this guy i work with and it got to the point that i didn't want to like him anymore because things between us were getting too awkward. Then one day i just found this other guy to keep my mind on and it helped me to get over this other guy. But i eventually fell for the other guy and just found out he isn't single. I am dissappointed and because i'm not completely over the 1st one who is also not single its left me heartbroken. How do i get myself out of this mess. I used someone to get over someone else and it backfired.what do i do now?
2007-04-18 00:39:47 · 18 answers · asked by debra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go out with friends...have fun. The right guy for you will come along...
2007-04-18 00:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 04:26:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well us women tend to get in these messes sometimes! It will not be the end of the world just learn from the experience and the next guy you meet make sure you ask questions and get to know them so you don't end up heart broken again! There is love for you but you cant go out looking for it when the time is right it will come to you, Let the game run its course you ll be surprised what happens! There is love out there for everyone but it will only come when the time is meant to be and unfortunately we don't have the capability to tell when that time will come I bet we all wish we could tell who was the one but all our lives are in gods hands and he will make the best decision for you when he is ready too! Just go on about your life and be happy, You may cry for few days because your upset but that's OK you probably are upset and its OK to feel the way you feel! Good Luck
2007-04-18 00:50:56 · answer #3 · answered by cbella06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to talk it out to ur frens whom u can trust the most.
U used some1 to get over some1 but neither know ur doing it. u didn't say that this 2 guy knows what ur feeling or what ur doing so i'm assuming ur doing all this secretly.
anyway i suggest u should put ur minds to other things quickly. both guys are no longer single so they don't have feelings for u therefore they no longer in ur reach.(don't hate me for saying this).
Calm ur mind think back through from the beginning. Think about why u don't want to like a person u have liked. Is it because ur not rdy? or something else? u need to think these things through.
As for using another guy to keep the first guy off ur mind... ur merely it making go in a round bend. What goes around comes around. So the first guy will eventually come back to ur mind sooner or later. Especially ur working with him.
The main thing is talk is out to some1. Let it all out and think things through from the beginning
i hope i didn't go off point. Don't hate me pls
2007-04-18 00:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by skandrake2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, unfortunately, when you use another person to rebound from another person, it always backfires.
The best thing to do is to severe all ties with them for a while, and, you know, just give yourself time to be "Single and NOT looking". Re-evaluate your priorities, find out whats important to you in a relationship, and most importantly, give yourself some time to just be you. No relationships, no prospects, it really sets you straight and healthy for your next relationship.
And i dont want to be judgemental, but you shouldnt go after people at work, it, as im sure you can tell, usually ends badly.
2007-04-18 00:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by mettophobic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live and learn from your mistakes that is all you can do and that is what life is a bout. Instead of trying to get over him do something postive for yourself. Find things that you enjoy doing and do them. You know they are both not single and you need to find someone who is single that you can have a relationship with but first need time to deal with your emotions. Find a postive outlet for your emotions. Right down what you want in a guy go out meet new people and have fun but stay away from them two.
2007-04-18 00:44:54 · answer #6 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is to try to understand who you are and what you do want for you self with your life.
How do you value your self.
You are worth a love on your own to find the one who do see you as the person you are.
But first you do have to love your self valuate you and boost you with all those things that you are.
Then your inner self esteem will glow you up and guide love to you because of that you are.
Which you the best of luck...Anita
2007-04-18 00:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by Burningdelight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi debra! i feel that you are in a terrible mental state. i'd recommend that you stay away from both these guys for few days. that will give your mind some rest & you'll be able to understand the situation better. I feel that in these situations only you yourself can answer best. but that is possible when you can think logically. so stay away from these guys. take a vacation.
2007-04-18 00:47:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut off all the strings attached and run!!
you puppet of the heart.
get out and get over,you must.
seek yourself and yourself you must find/
joy comes from within you,make yourself powerfull over your heart you must.
(what am i saying? trying to sound like yoda.love that guy.)
2007-04-18 00:50:34 · answer #9 · answered by 9k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep looking. Preferably not at work though. That could be a problem in itself.
2007-04-18 00:46:30 · answer #10 · answered by MISTY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋