I know this kid who is having a Bar Mitzvah. I am in all his classes. Two of my best friends are in none of his classes, and got invited. I didn't. Why is that? I am this person's friend!!!!!! they aren't. How come im not invited. We sit next to each other in 2 classes out of 4! I am just as good of a friend to him as the other two people are, if not better! I need a revenge plan!!!!!! HELP! why aren't i invited, and i need ideas for revenge - subtle but effective
2007-04-17 16:07:29 · 4 answers · asked by meeee 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
thanks- but I know this person really well!!!!! he is always talking to me! I don't think he has ever said a word to my other friends that are invited!
2007-04-17 16:15:30 · update #1
I think the invites came out about a week and a half ago. If that makes any difference.
2007-04-17 16:19:31 · update #2
Well, i don't want revenge
2007-04-18 01:22:45 · update #3
Neither of them are Jewish. Their parents also don't have connections.
2007-04-18 01:23:56 · update #4
You could simply ask him.
"Hey 'John' was talking about his invite to your Bar Mitzvah and thought we could catch a ride together. He assumed I'd gotten one too."
Then he can explain why you didn't OR perhaps he put it in your locker or something and you haven't checked yet. But there is a good chance that you assume he didn't give you one, but he thinks he did.
Either way, I'd ask him. You'd feel incredibly dumb if you didn't and then after the party he asked why you weren't there. Or you planned revenge and then found out he merely put it in the wrong locker.
Subtle but effective would be to ask him. Thats the most effective way of finding out.
2007-04-17 16:14:45 · answer #1 · answered by phantom_of_valkyrie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't get revenge. Obviously you aren't as good of friends as you believe. Be graceful about this. Part of growing up, is realize that everyone is not always your friend. Re-examine your relationship with this person.
Friendships also have different levels; just b/c you talk to the person next to you in class; doesn't mean you are their best friend. Also, perhaps, your other friends were invited for different reasons. Do they attend the same synagogue(sp?) as this kid, or are their parent's friends or business partners?
2007-04-17 16:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your friend has a reason for thinking maybe you wouldn't want to come to it or something. Did you ask him why he didn't invite you? That would be the first thing I would ask ... and revenge?! That would definately be a bad idea.
2007-04-17 17:19:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get circumcised and tell him you're Jewish. After that you'll be first choice. They know how to live! You'll never regret it.
2007-04-17 16:14:41 · answer #4 · answered by jaded 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋