I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half now and he treats me like total ****. I know he loves me. But Im trying to find ways to prove that i wont stay for long????
2007-04-17 13:20:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i just want ways to like ignore him and make him come back not totally leave him?
2007-04-20 08:47:09 · update #1
Have you spoken to him about this? If not, what are you waiting for? It sounds to me, he doesn't respect you anymore and it appears you are taking his ****. He needs to know if this crap doesn't stop, you'll walk. Life is too short to have to waste anymore time with the likes of this.
2007-04-25 11:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by Susie L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you don't want to hear it, but if he is treating you like crap, that means he doesn't really care for you much. I learned the hard way, actions speak louder than words. If you don't remeber anything else remeber this, "You can never change people", only God can change people. People can't change people. If you think im lying stay with him and see how long you can put up with him before you'll be back on here asking for advice again. It's best to not waste your time with making him think he's going to lose you. Your just exerting energy and time for no reason cause he will probably straighten up for two days and then go right back to the way he was! You need to discuss this situation with him and be mature and communitcate to him how you feel. Trust and communication are the two keys to any successful realationship. If he doesn't change then i was right and you should leave him and trust me life will go on and you will find someone else to love you if not better even more. Good luck!
2007-04-25 13:21:50 · answer #2 · answered by Lady T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No relationship stays the same. Relationships are always changing. The key is to having it change so that both people like it. You do that by talking to each other about whats working in the relationship and whats not. You teach people how to treat you. You want to be treated nicely? The next time your bf does something that upsets you, tell him. Do it calmly. If he keeps being mean, he doesn't care about you the way you need him too. Move on because he's not going to be what you want or need.
2016-05-17 21:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by delphine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve a heck of alot more than your getting. How can someone love you when they treat you bad. Especially after a year and a half
Id get out even if you say you still love him write down things on one side that are things you like about him on another side things you hate about him. also if you won the lotto tommorow would you stay or would you go.
People like that dont value relationships until they have nothing and come crawling back. They should think about their actions before they act. let him know that he may of missed out on the best thing that ever happened to him good luck
2007-04-25 08:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by GA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone who treats you like crap, considers you crap. For some reason you are trying to please an unpleasable person. No he doesn't love you if he hurts you. Love does not do that. You should really do some deep consideration on why you are in a relationship like this. Destructive, and dead end.
Counseling may help you to understand this and get out before it becomes a pattern. Get help, and don't' worry about making him like you. the right guy will like you just for being you,. and want you to be happy, because he genuinely cares for you.
2007-04-25 13:06:11 · answer #5 · answered by almondsarenuts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Tell him either he straighten up or you'll leave. And if he straightens up but it only laasts for a while leave, don't give another chance after that. Nobody should be treated like crap. If you are unhappy in the relationship it's unfair to the both oof you.
2007-04-25 09:53:12 · answer #6 · answered by MiSs Staci 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave. The fact that he's treating you like this means he doesn't have any real feelings for you. (don't wanna be harsh but you might just be a play mate). I'd get out of there before it turns abusive.
2007-04-25 10:41:41 · answer #7 · answered by % 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave... my lord, the fact that your getting treat'd like that is because your both got a relationship thats based on the fact that you guys "love" each other... love isn't enough and he is using it against you. So in a small way you are in love with a stranger, that doesn't respect you, doesn't like you, and has a hard time toleranting you.... yea I think he still loves you...
2007-04-19 08:59:15 · answer #8 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he is treats you this way for as long as has, get out now and dont look back, there is better ones out there that well treat you the way you deserve. he do`nt love you it`s power and controll, he well hurt you badly . it`s called abuess
2007-04-25 13:21:39 · answer #9 · answered by rasbeery jam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know..... Get some self respect and don't put up with that Sheet. No need to be mean and lower yourself to his level but show some back bone and pride and move on.
2007-04-25 12:48:26 · answer #10 · answered by David Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋