was i wrong to break up with him??

Question

my boyfried and i have been having typical problems for the past month. when im with him i feel bad tenstion between us and i have to pretend like im happy like old days but the truth is that i was miserbable and i hated feeling that was i missed being happy w him. when im with him i feel so shitty, i feel like he cant stand the sit of my face its such a sucky feeling. well easter comes around i invite over for dinner and he said he will see cuz he has alot of school work so i said ok. i told him dinner will be around 8 he said he he wont beable to come but thanks for the invite like i was just a buddy or something. and i was like ok. he never calls so i call around 9:30 and he was about to have dinner w two guy friends. from all the other stuff going on that was the last straw for me it hurt me and he was being such a jerk that i could take it i told him i couldnt do this anymore and he said i hung up and havnt talked since. was i worong? are we complely done? does he not care?

Answer 1

Nope your right, no your not techniqually done, the communication broke down for whatever reason and you guys stop being frineds and just went to the old relationship based on a mutual agreement not to love other people (your relationship became a business agreement after the friendship was stunt'd), and he can't help but care lady, now how much he is welling to accept'd it is the real delima.... fact is I think you did the right thing, it would just be nice if you knew more the reason's why.... it well help you with moving on, or it might actual save the relationship... if he can't give you that, then this was a horriable mistake on your part and its going to be a hard road ahead... well unless you can forgive yourself... and him... good luck...