Ilost my job one and half year ago pleasehelpme no confidence on self esteem stressful ilive with my sister we have always argument she tells me bad words that makes so set.no confidence, noself esteem, noambition no motivation.
2007-04-12 14:03:23 · 8 answers · asked by Aliya J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hi. I'm sorry you feel bad and have this stress.
Can you try talking to a counselor about it to help you to handle the situation? It can take a little effort to find one that matches up, but it can be worth it.
It could help you start to get your self esteem back.
It is hard to lose a job and also to live with an abusive family member.
That is enough to get anybody down.
There are some low-cost places you could try to go to for counseling if you do not have health insurance, especially in a larger city.
I hope you find that soon so you will begin to feel better.
2007-04-12 14:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by KAR36 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you lost your job 1 1/2 years ago then that was not recently. I know it's hard but go out and find you a job, any job at first, and get some money saved up so you can move out on your own. Maybe go see a Dr. about the depression. Once you are able to support yourself you will find your self esteem and confidence will boost up. Good Luck!
2007-04-12 22:16:25 · answer #2 · answered by Smilinez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When one door closes a bigger and better one opens.Make a list of everything you do well.Example are a bookeeper cashier have been you been to college Now make another list of what your hobbies are .Do you crochet do flower arrangements bake cakes and decorate them well, Now combine the 2 Lets say you can decorate cakes well .You bake cakes and sell them to lets say family or people you know you are really good .This helps you start your way back to working for yourself That is just of course an example.I know a lady who used to crochet hats dresses skirts pretty much anything then sold them What are your talents.Next go to your women center they have programs that will get you started back in the work force,Some teach job skills( If you already have them because we have people out there with masters and bachelor degrees that cannot get job right now) and interveiw techniques Also check at your local woman center for counseling and work at getting your self esteem and confidence back Surround youself with positive things and people Be around people who want you to suceed.If you need direction on any of these programs check it out on the web or your local church Because now days when jobs can go in a heart beat you should always have a talent that will make you self sufficent
2007-04-12 22:15:09 · answer #3 · answered by chameleon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever I'm at the bottom i always think i have no wheres else to go but up.. so look forward to whats to come, stay driven and focused on what you want out of live. Take anything you can get to occupy your time, and get out of the house. If you can't find that job that your looking for, take a job you'll enjoy but might not pay as well.
2007-04-12 21:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by Alana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People on this board appreciate it when you put spaces in correctly, not to be mean.
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2007-04-12 21:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey i can imagine what you are going through. You feel like the whole world is against you. Dont give up. Some of the greatest movie stars were just like you,but look where they are now. Thats because of their determination. If they made it who are you? Say i can make it.your troubles wont last always so turn all your troubles,trials,and tribulations into triumphs. And remember that im here for honey.:-)
2007-04-12 22:14:38 · answer #6 · answered by Shaquan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who feel bad about themselves pick on others- usually weaker ones.
If your sister feels you will take her verbal abuse, you'll have to strengthen yourself and not take it.
Remember: Only you can change yourself, and only you can set limits. Respect yourself first and stand up to others.
Try working on inner healing and try to make a list of all your good qualities. Write them down and put them in a place where you can see them so you can reinforce yourself.
We all have good things and bad things...We're human.
Try to work on your self-esteem and try to change the things you don't like but can change.
Good luck...
2007-04-12 21:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by Nena S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
therapy, therapy, therapy....
it would do you a world of good.. therapy really works when YOU WORK IT!
take care of you...
2007-04-12 21:36:15 · answer #8 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋