please can anybody help me!! this is my problem my boyfriend is sooo jealous please give me some advices i dont want to leave him so please tell me what to do so he can stop that!! please
2007-04-12 14:02:20 · 10 answers · asked by DnnyslittleAngel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to address all of the problems that cause his jealousy. are you flirty? are you untrustworthy? do you have heaps of guy friends?
you need to sit down with him and talk to him about these things. and it depends are flexible your prepared to be in the relationship....
he might want you to change several things about your personality. or his requests might be totally stupid. for instance if he asks you to stop speaking to any other guys. that's just stupid and that when you need to realise its just him and his insecurities. some people are naturally very jealous people. and if there is no reason to be jealous its something that they need to deal with themselves. otherwise they might risk loosing alot of precious relationships. its a touchy subject and it leads to alot of fights. so you need to be level headed and realistic. how long can you put up with a jealous boyfriend?......
2007-04-12 14:11:25 · answer #1 · answered by SubbYMonKeY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunatly it is not something you can do he has to be the one to stop. I once heard that jealousy is a form of showing someone that it is themselves they are not trusting, it has nothing to do with you or anyone else.
You can just baiscally talk to him and tell him how you are feeling about this but it has to be in to make the choice and do something.
Sorry :(
2007-04-12 14:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealously is a form of insecurity maybe u need to tell him that he can trust u and that he has nothing to worry about let him know that u see his jealousy as stupidity and that it is only pushing you away. just let him know u love him and there is no reason at all to be jealous of anything coz u are with HIM
2007-04-12 14:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealousy cant be stopped. its a feeling, not necessarily an action. so the best step is to do is to not give him a reason to be jealous
2007-04-12 14:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by Charnelle aka Nelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
continuously submit to in suggestions, that men love cheerfulness, solid experience of humour, and somebody with a happiness approximately them. tell me something? Are you happy interior of your self at this 2nd? Are you under pressure? Are you preferable a effective existence/occupation? we tend to radiate the form of means we've interior of ourselves. First you need to be with people who take exhilaration in you, and you need to artwork on 'your self' first. it truly is YOU who's the 1st precedence in existence. take care of your self, pamper your self, get a makeover, circulate to a wellness spa. attempt taking over yoga, or transforming into a member of the wellness club, it enables calms the nerves and that i'm able to assure you it could make that element of the month ordinary for you too. whilst you're truly concerened, then ask your GP approximately any remedies, that may ease your tension for the time of that element of the month. Now thats out of ways, see your boyfreind does unlike somebody who's arguing with him continuously. thats why hes moved into the hostel, and with yet another woman. hear woman, throw that jealousy out of the window. you dont want him. in simple terms permit him circulate, and talk your self. as quickly as you sense advantageous approximately urself you will radiate advantageous means which im particular somebody wont have the means to stand up to!!! circulate on then superb of luck!!! x
2016-12-29 05:52:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak really raw to him. Say:
I don't appreciate that you can't trust me enough to talk to other guys. You know that you're the one I want. If I didn't like you, I wouldn't go out with you! I have other friendships and you need to respect that. I respect your relationships. I expect the same.
2007-04-12 14:07:20 · answer #6 · answered by Nana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk to him, as rational adults about what is bothering him.
If that doesnt work and he continues his jealousy, it maybe something more and you would be better off without him.
2007-04-12 14:07:50 · answer #7 · answered by di12381 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop being jealousy, you have to overcome it with trust and confidence.
2007-04-12 14:07:21 · answer #8 · answered by nelly_wifey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run Now!
You'll regret any other decision
2007-04-12 14:06:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop it. He has to overcome his self-confidence problem and stop it himself.
2007-04-12 14:05:07 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋