my mom is one of those moms who doesnt want you to ever date cuz she is too protective. but i have a boyfriend but i dont know how to tell her.
2007-04-12 13:35:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell her when she's in a happy mood. Tell her sooner rather than later cause she'll be more upset if you wait. Just tell her and do it soon.
2007-04-12 13:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly sit down with her and say..... "Mom, I have a boyfriend and he is really nice. I am really happy being with him. I know you told me not to date but if anything goes wrong I will come to you ASAP! I swear. Please let me go out with him" After that let your mom think about it.
If your mom says yes but you have to follow rules then follow the rules don't break them and do as you promised. Most likely you will be able to date him and not hide from your family.
Also when you are around him if he doesn't know tell him your mom didn't know before but know she does.
I hope everything works out. :*)
2007-04-12 20:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by 143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say if you are age 14+ you don't need to tell your parents. Just make wise decisions and make sure that a lot of your friends know that you're dating someone.
however, if you are younger, your mother has a right to be protective. She doesn't want you to make any mistakes. Just tell her that you really like this guy and you're wondering how she feels about you dating him. You actually might be surprised with the answer.
2007-04-12 20:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by Nana 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well when she's in a good mood, you say mom I need to speak with you. Then you proceed with your arguement. I would start out byt saying, you know I love you and you know i'm getting older now and im asking for you to trust me and trust my decissions. Then you tell her about your bf situation. I hope it works. Goodluck!
2007-04-12 21:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are u and your bf.......just be honest with your mum and you souldnt hid things from your parents because they will always find out about it in the end........if you hide things from them and some eles tells your parents before u do it wont be good... you sould tell them yourself......all parents a protective of there children so will you when you get older and have kids of your own
2007-04-13 01:29:20 · answer #5 · answered by badgirlforlife007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how old you are, if your less than 16 i would know why she dosnt want you to date
but tell her "i am pretty mature enough, to have a boyfriend mom" or something to the like
2007-04-12 20:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell her nice and easy and if you are under11 or 12 um dont tell her quite yet .
2007-04-12 21:22:56 · answer #7 · answered by lady_bug110 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, "Mom, why do you not let me date? I think I am old enough." And, she will answer, and then you tell her.
2007-04-12 20:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Heather♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well just say it
dont like lie or nothing
just come out with it and tell her
u have a bf and
let her meet him
2007-04-12 20:48:49 · answer #9 · answered by @XD_inc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to here
2007-04-12 20:45:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋