cause i'm 13 and he is 13 and i broke up with him yesterday and he called me and apologized for calln' me the b word and that he was just kidding and he said i was his everything and he dos not wanna lose me ever (cause were engaged) anyways and he said that he is gunna go2 the mall and buy me somthn' nice and expensive and i said no cause i'm not a material girl and he said yes and i won't take no 4 an answer and i'll do wuteve it takes 2 get somthn' 4 u! and so 2day i called him and his sis answered and said that he is in jail cause he got cought skipping school and stealing at the mall and now i feel bad and i'm balling my eye's out cause i think that it's my fault and i don't know what will happen to him and we have never gone a day w/o sayn' i love 4 a month so iz it my fault ?!?!?!?!?
2007-04-12 13:31:01 · 26 answers · asked by {{i ♥ muh prince}} 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you are not responsible for his actions ok. You have no control over what he or anybody else does ok. So please stop crying, its not your fault. He chose to skip school and go steal something, now me must pay the price. You feeling guilty accomplishes nothing.
2007-04-12 13:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its definetly not your fault he's in jail. Some other guy shouldn't just pressure you into back into a relationship. He was the one who made the stupid mistakes and you had no idea he would have done something that extreme. If he continously gets mad at you an then desperately tries to get your attention with something drastic and give you guilt, then I wouldn't stay with him, cuz that will put you through a lot of emotional stress and you don't need that.
2007-04-12 20:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by redorridin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First no its not your fault. Second, hes only 13, hes considered a juvenile (do u know what that is?) so hes not IN JAIL, he will be released to his parents and sent home with a misdemeanor summons meaning he has to go to court on a later date, then they will decide what his punishment is..which still won't be jail.
Also, ya'll are way too young to even say you're engaged. Try not to worry, everything will be fine.
2007-04-12 20:36:31 · answer #3 · answered by ArmyWife0412 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT!!!!! You told him not to get you anything. He made that decision on his own. Don't blame yourself for something he done wrong. He shouldn't have called you the B word, and he shouldn't have skipped school and stole from that mall. You didn't do anything wrong. Plus if he thinks that you have to have something from him all that shows is that he feels guilty.
2007-04-12 20:40:01 · answer #4 · answered by Andrea luvs u...maybe...lol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, dry your eyes....
>mumbles to self<.....Where to start...????
Your 13...he's 13, there is no engagement unless you are one helluva inbred hillbilly...come on girl, your 13!!!
You did not make him go and steal...you did not make him skip school, therefore its not YOUR fault!
And...if he loved you, he would not have called you a *****, and then turned around and told you that he was just kiddin. But then again.........you do not understand what LOVE means...not love in the understanding of how this type of love works. >mumbles to self<...kids are in such a hurry to grow up.....
This lil boy is screwed up, loose the tears...loose the wannabe thug.........
2007-04-12 20:38:39 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're only 13 and you were engaged?
Listen, I don't mean to dismiss teenage love, but perhaps you need to be with other people to finally understand what true love is.
As for your man, this is something he *CHOSE* to do. It is not your fault! In fact, be glad that he is out of your life because you don't want a man who breaks the law, even if it's out of "love." Maybe you won't understand now, but when you're older, you will.
2007-04-12 20:36:54 · answer #6 · answered by Delita 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not your fault.
He skipped school and stole something all by himself.
And going to jail for a month at 13 means he also has a long history with the juvenile courts.
Lose him or be prepared to be going away yourself someday.
2007-04-12 20:39:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What country puts a 13 year old in jail. What country allow 13 years old to get engaged. What world do you live in I think this fake.
2007-04-12 20:36:48 · answer #8 · answered by Lou 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL STOP CRYING. IT ISN'T YOUR FAULT YOU TOLD HIM U DIDN'T WANT THE GIFT NOR DID YOU TELL HIM TO GO STEALING OR CUT SCHOOL.HE DID IT ON HIS ON OKAY. IT IS HARD FOR ME TO SAY THIS BUT YOU ARE ONLY 13 THE BOTH OF YOU ARE GOING TO FIND OUT AS YOU GET OLDER THERE ARE MORE FISH IN THE SEA.BUT HEY YOU WILL GO THROUGH WHAT I HAD TO REALIZE AND YOUR MOTHER AND SO ON. FOR NOW BE PATIENT AND A FRIEND AND PLEASE STAY IN SCHOOL AND NO BABIES IVE BEEN THERE AND DONE THAT TOO.GOOD LUCK AND BOTH OF YOU KEEP YOUR HEAD UP.
2007-04-12 20:43:11 · answer #9 · answered by nursediva1000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can u b engaged? ur only 13!!! an as 4 ur bf,its his own stupid fault,if he is gona steal then he has 2 pay for the item sum how,even if it means goin 2 jail.trust me it aint ur fault
2007-04-12 20:38:03 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋