ok me and my girl been out 4 9 mnths and were really in love.we call everyday and see each other and have ups and dwns and will have a house this year but bith of us changed.we both have attitude problems and etc.we break up like all the time.but we end up back 2gether.i dnt know whether 2 leave or stay because she's the best thing that happened 2 me!!!
p.s. im a female
p.s.s. we were best friends like 3 yrs
2007-04-12 13:14:50 · 14 answers · asked by Pooki3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't sound like a very healthy relationship, if you keep "breaking up" and getting back together... but who knows, I don't know anything about you two to say one way or the other. Maybe you guys should talk it out and see what's best...
2007-04-12 13:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eventually it's going to get very tired with all the leaving and coming back. You want someone you can depend on. So either you have to have a serious talk with her explaining that if you guys keep walking out on eachother, things just aren't going to work out. Moving it with each other is a big commitment. Do you really want to be with a person that could leave you at any point in time to take care of your home all by yourself? Or worse, kick you out of your home? If you guys can't stay with each other you won't progress at all. If you think that you have a chance of still staying together, fix it. But if you think your fights are too serious and they aren't fixable, I suggest moving on to someone else.
Sometimes you love some one so much but it just doesn't work out. For what ever reasons. You could be crazy about them. It just doesn't work.
2007-04-12 20:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by Nana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's the best thing that ever happened to you, then why do you keep breaking up? it sounds like you're in a holding pattern: you love what's familiar, but it's no longer what fits. 'a wise woman once told me that if a relationship ends, it's for a good reason. move on.' breaking up for good is hard and takes a lot of stamina, but it always leads to another relationship (which is usually better) and a better life. good luck.
2007-04-12 20:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by Julie N 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me that you guys might be looking for a reason to fight and break up to get eachothers attention. If you guys are in love then the first thing you guys need to do is stop looking for a way out when things get bad. Look for a different way to solve fights. Talk things out and take a closer look at what it is your fighting over. Me and my boyfriend of 8 years just got into a huge fight and i threatened to leave to get his attention. Well it backfired and he asked me to leave after living together for only 6 months. I learned the hard way.
2007-04-12 20:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by tish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys are better off as friends becasue of ur ups and downs and its onli been 9 months it is hard but come on 3 years of best friend friendship thts better than anything in the world
2007-04-12 20:18:46 · answer #5 · answered by Doing Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh, thats how it is. Well if you think its worth keeping the relationship, simply spend time apart. I know it sounds weird but in order for a relationship to grow, you need to contribute to it. In order to do this, you need to experience things without eachother, so you can actually talk to eachother without being able to guess the others answer.
2007-04-12 20:20:05 · answer #6 · answered by Cosplayer! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not being from a f/f relationship please feel free to ignore my answer.
The fact that you both argue on a reg basis - and seem to resolve each ssue as it comes along leads me to think that you can work this thing out on a long term basis.
what's it gonna hurt? - give the girl a go.
2007-04-12 20:19:51 · answer #7 · answered by Pete M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, invite her t a nice hotel have champagne and talk a lot, and the decide if you keep the relationship or became friends again.
2007-04-12 20:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by Afortunado 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break ups are always goodto test the sincerity of the relationship if you miss her then thats a sign you like her and may need to work out your differences any relationship is hard work so get to work and make up
2007-04-12 20:20:38 · answer #9 · answered by greengrass44444 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well see if you are the best thing that has ever happened to her. Then the rest will fall into place.
2007-04-12 20:19:03 · answer #10 · answered by jeannie f 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋