so i know this guy...........................?

Question

ok so i have known this guy for a long time. 7 years. he is bisexual. i am the only one who knows. and ever scince he told me, we have been really close friends. scince my friends have more classes with him, i asked him if they think he likes me. they said that they don't know because they don't know him as good as i do. but they said that he cares about me alot. because this girl is trying to spread all these rumors about me and trying to turn my friends against me. they told him about this and he got mad and threatend to kick her @ss. he has done that before also. they said that he dosen't like people to hurt me. he also gets very jelous. like when i was goin out with this guy, he got mad because i was spending more tome with my boyfriend than him. we already broke up because i don't like him to be mad. so what do u think? should i ask him, or give him hints and let him come to me or what? he always tries to cheer me up when i'm sad, and has kissed me once. on the lips.

o don't know if that was a friendly kiss or more than a friend kiss. i was sad because me grandpa died and he kissed me because i was sad and everything, so maybe he was just trying to cheer me up? or was he trying to tell me that he likes me more than a friend?

Answer 1

You need to talk to him about these feelings. He looks like a great guy to be a good friend to you, and no matter what, if you want this relationship in your life, you can't be scared to talk to him about, EVERYTHING. Espacially how you feel about him, don't make the same mistake people do and hide your feelings, no matter what your intentions with this guy is. Thats the differents between having a relationship that last, and one thats starting to end. In relationship they need to grow, they need to develop, and thats extremely hard when both parties are not being honest. It just takes one to get that start'd. Also don't think about having a comment'd sexual relationship with this guy, thats not the goal. Its about developing a friendship that can grow that way are not, don't get stuck thinking thats the way its got to be. This guy could be a strong ally and friend to have around at the very least. Plus its easier to confront him on feelings if your willing to settle for that at the very least. As the bi-thing, is ether because he is overly-sexual, or is homosexual and just deny it to himself. This type of sexual orentiation comes about because of his imprinting, it could be dangerous for you to even descide to be in a commented sexual relationship anyways because he doesn't know his sexuality good enough to be satisfied. But this is stuff you guys need to be talking about, the only boundries in a friendship are the ones you guys put up, tear them down, and develop a great bond. Were it goes from there, depends on the bond... so get communicating!