Will you absolutly turn her down if she isnt fit? Personal question...answer truthfully...
2007-04-12 13:03:48 · 18 answers · asked by laurie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im just wondering, by "not fit" you can take it as 10 extra pounds, obeses whatever you wanted, just wanted to see people's reactions....thanks for your honesty!
2007-04-12 13:10:51 · update #1
Hard call - depends on the person, depends on the situation. I have turned down very pretty women because they are vacuous and I married a woman most men probably would turn down (because of her weight) because of the connection we made.
Looks versus substance - for me substance wins every time.
2007-04-12 13:09:32 · answer #1 · answered by zappafan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Physical attraction is necessary, but there is a huge range of attraction. Just because society tries to tell you Maxim is the benchmark for beauty doesn’t mean you have to buy into the crap. My gramma once told me, put a bag over their head and they are the same. If you can’t talk to them, have a conversation, and enjoy it with the bag over their head then it won’t matter if the bag is off.
Ok, so Gramma is a little weird and I first I didn’t believe it, but dang if she ain’t 100% true.
2007-04-12 20:08:55 · answer #2 · answered by Tech-NO-savy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i probly would. but she has to have an amazing personality. same way with a girl who is fit. i would never go out with a reallly hot dumb as hellll girl. i want people with fun, smart personalities.
by not fit do u mean obese?
it all depends
I hope this helped you
good luck
2007-04-12 20:06:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what you mean by fit I want a girl that is in enough shape to run about 1/2 a mile like not in supermodel shape but not to fat ethier
2007-04-12 20:10:58 · answer #4 · answered by dantesnake2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will find shallow people out there in both genders.
Some guys will like to only be you friend also.
Then again you will find some that will not be so shallow and admire you for being yourself ..
2007-04-12 20:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on a lot of things but an amazing personality and confidence is a great start
2007-04-12 20:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not turn her down, as long as she's a good person.
2007-04-12 20:06:09 · answer #7 · answered by Netsirk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a chance of turning her down!
2007-04-12 20:06:12 · answer #8 · answered by Pete M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldnt. I love girls with personality and if a girl is un fit it wouldnt bother me.
2007-04-12 20:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by Jmack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would turn her down.
2007-04-12 20:07:06 · answer #10 · answered by Josh D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋