Well i've been with my girlfriend for about 7 months now and i lover her to bits! The other night we went to a 18th party.
All night i couldn't get 5 mins with her. She was off talking to other people mainly lads. When i went and danced later on in the night, i don't think she new i was behind her. She was dancing with my mate, but i wouldnt call it dancing, he was all over her and she wasnt exactly fighting him off. That annoyed me but i thought i must be over reacting, then 2 seconds later she gave him a quick kiss (well peck) on the lips!. At this point i was so annoyed. I didnt want to start argueing and that with them both. So in the end i just got a taxi home and left with two others. The next day we argued for abit then made up. The thing is she doesnt see a kiss as a big deal but i do!. But i think im being too soft with her.
The question is - am i over reacting to the whole situation or am i being too soft? What would you do?
2007-04-12 12:45:12 · 9 answers · asked by hulme_89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would be really mad if my b/f did the same thing. I would actually confront her and let her know how you feel... and I would probably seriously consider breaking up with my b/f... actually, after only 7 months, I probably would break up with him.
2007-04-12 12:50:26 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a woman desiring her area isn't something new, yet this may well be somewhat lots dude. in case you frolicked at those issues continuously and each now and then she had to circulate on her very own or with freinds, then honest adequate, yet whilst its every time, thats no longer favourite. the undeniable fact that she specifically would not want you round her "guy freinds" won't have the ability to be something below alarming, the two somethings occurring or there is another guy who's employer she values lots which you putting around could get in the way, the two way, you are the BF, you need to no longer be enjoying 2nd play around to no person.
2016-12-29 05:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not over reacting she spent more time with the other guys at the party more then her bf thats wrong.......and i guess they whay your friend and her were danceing was eather in a sexy way or in a close why......and her kissing your mate on the lips well that was wrong of her when she is dateing you and your friend allowed your gf to kiss him....... i think there is somthing going on there.......i dont think that is there friest kiss they both have shared with each other........so when you left the party.......your gf and your friend was still at the party so what happend at the party when you left and after the party finshed what did they do, did they go strat home....... why would you call yourself soft for.........does she have msn i could help you find out more about whats went on or whats going on with her and your friend....hope i have helped please feel free to come to me for advice
2007-04-12 13:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by badgirlforlife007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are being too soft. Kissing another guy is not okay, and she needs to know that. If she can't stop flirting and dancing and kissing other guys, I don't see how you two have a future together
2007-04-12 12:49:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She couldn't find five minutes for you at a party? She's honking away with another guy and kissing him ?? You took a taxi home, so did she even notice you were gone?? When did she notice, and who took her home? You are a softee. Most guys would kick her seductive ways with other guys straight to the curb. Why are you still with this beetch?
2007-04-12 12:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me I'd try very hard to convince myself to take that inevitable step of distancing myself from her, same as leaving her, and move on to the possibility of a relationship with a girl who has better judgment. It is not likely to get better in your case. More disappointment is coming. Sorry for the ill thoughts.
2007-04-12 12:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by nothing 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Hulme89,
I think your being way to soft on your girlfriend.if my boyfriend saw me kiss another boy he would break up with on the spot.I think next time she does something like that first talk it over and see what she says but i would break up with her.And if she kisses another boy than she probably doesnt care about you anymore.no matter what she says.
-Angela Marie
P.S.Would like to be in my fan club?
2007-04-12 12:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by Angela Marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm on your side you should overeact she kissed a different guy.
2007-04-12 12:51:03 · answer #8 · answered by during 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd find some new tuna bro
2007-04-12 12:50:36 · answer #9 · answered by Charles B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋