He broke up with me after three years claiming hes no longer in love with me. Now he says he wants to talk... What should i do?
2007-04-12 12:44:04 · 13 answers · asked by Audrey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well talk to him, especially if you still like him...then u k now what he wants...be honest when u talk.
2007-04-12 12:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by Kittykat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do you stilll love him? Or are you so over him? If you still love him, don't act too excited. Play it cool. Ask him, what does he want to talk about and why. Don't rush it and don't pull anything. Be sure to act cool and after he's done explaining you might want to say something or if he asked you something, you might want to reconsider the question. Like if he asks you "Can you be my girlfriend?" again remember to think about it. Do you want to be hurt again? Is he worth it and can he be trusted? These are only the possiblities of what he might want to be talking about, he might just ask for some simple errands or anything but dont worry! :DD If you are so over him then act hard to get. ( if he wants to get back with you) feel free to play a little game with him and have some fun ! The worse he can do is call u a sIut and a bltch. But remember, you can always call him the assh0le for breaking up with him. Do what ever feels comfortable for you or you can just see how it goes. Good luck :DD!
2007-04-12 19:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by xbbysweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him and see what he has to say. If he tries to get you back I would laugh in his face. If you take him back he will know he can dump you anytime he wants and you will keep running back when he wants you to. Find out why he broke up with you and do not accept the excuse I had to take time off to think. If he says anything hurtful stop him and say. " look I was actually kind of glad you broke it off I wanted to do it for so long but did not know how to tell you" and then hold your head up high and walk out know you never have to speak to the jerk again.
2007-04-12 19:51:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that is a tough one. It could be that he realizes he's made a big mistake ... or it could be that he needs closure or just to get some things off of his chest.
The only thing you can do is hear him out -- that is IF you want to know. If you are already on your way to getting over it, are completely sure you would NOT take him back, and think that talking to him about would only hurt you ... don't bother. There is no point.
Personally, I would listen to what he has to say, just so I wouldn't always wonder or regret.
2007-04-12 19:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by mistaken4sane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very possible that he had some other little chickadee talking smack in his ear - and when he decided to 'let you go' - she no longer wanted him and now he wants to come back! Or - he might have realized that he made a deision too fast - the thing is - are you willing to hear what he has to say???? A lot of times, men hurt us and tell us we are not the right one, etc. and they get out there and find out the other women don't care about them or do anything close to what we did for them - and they want us back...you're in the drivers seat - use your mind carefully - and be prepared for whatever he might want to say.......
2007-04-12 19:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you can just talk with him, but I wouldn't get back together with a guy who claimed he stopped loving me
2007-04-12 19:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he probably wants you back.He probably knows that you are the only gurl that makes him happy..Not like the others just let him talk to you..maybe yall can be together again..If yall really loved eachother yall wont let go.
2007-04-12 19:48:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is going to try to get you back.
Tell him to take a long walk off a short pier.
I would. Hey, he broke up with you AND he is still calling the shots???? HELLO?!?!?!?!?
2007-04-12 19:47:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess talk to him and see what he has to say and if you dont like what he is saying .. yank it all out from under him .. perfect plan
2007-04-12 19:47:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess talk to him and see what he has to say :)
2007-04-12 19:47:45 · answer #10 · answered by me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋