the man with who i've gone through hard times, who made me feel the maddest feeling of the world, about who i dream of and make plans about, the man i trust, the man who rised me above the senventh sky...
...the man i love is leaving....
he says we r different. we came from different countries but we arnt completely opposite things. we got similar characteristics, likes, dislikes. he says he cant fit in england. he tried and now wanna go back.
i'm lost, confused, scared. dont know what to do. so i decided to ask u guys. if anybody got any ideas what is a better thing to do in this situation, pls advise.
2007-04-12 12:39:23 · 21 answers · asked by Jenya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i cannot go with him now. i would if i could but i'm studying and cant give up everything at this moment and my parents wont be happy about that idea as well. i want our relationship to be blessed by my and his family. and to do so i got to finish off my degee first.
2007-04-18 03:19:08 · update #1
if u truely love him and he loves u go with him
2007-04-12 12:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by sweet_happy_couple 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am so sorry for you at this point. I have been where you are and I understand. But the hard part is - the man has made a decision - he wants to leave. There is not much you can to do 'hold' him if he wants out. In his mind - you two are different - and want different things- in your mind- you are similar and you see the things in both of you that are alike. I have learned in my life time that when a man has made a decision such as this - there is not much you can do about it. You cant' change his mind - and you must learn to live on -and find someone who is more suitable for you. Yes, you will hurt and feel badly about the breakup - but I have learned also that if it is meant to be - love will return.
2007-04-12 12:46:23 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a difficult question and u must be going through hell. There's no easy answer i'm afraid. Thats not what u wanted to hear, but u are caught between a rock and a hard place. My only suggestion is to let him leave, u get on with what u hav to do , then when u hav finished your degree if u both still luv each other then you should get together no matter what. I really hope this works out for u both.
2007-04-19 22:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by dogsandysassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry the man in your life has decided to leave & go back home. If that's how he feels, there's nothing you can do to stop him. It's time to focus on yourself & your education. Just remember the saying: When one door closes, another one opens. This man is not right for you & one day, the right one will come along, maybe when you least suspect it. I can truly understand the heartache you must be feeling right now but in time, you will heal & realize that this was all meant to be.
2007-04-20 04:52:03 · answer #4 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey sweetie... i feel your pain! you should ask your man if he is willing to wait for you then you can complete your studies and be with him...if he wants you to move with him then i am sure that you can do distance studying!
at the end of the day I still believe in 1 thing....true love is all that you need... and if you meant to be you will be!
Good Luck... I pray that everything works out!
2007-04-19 19:17:42 · answer #5 · answered by Nes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice i can give to you is DON'T sit around and feel srry for yourself. Get up! Go for a run, paint a picture, take a bath, eat icecream. Do something for you and only you. Don't forget him but move on!
2007-04-12 12:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't make it there then that doesn't mean that you can't make it anywhere else... If you truly love him and his reasons for this is true, then go with him to his place... Learn to fit in there. No suurounding decides love, love is already decided in your heart... Where you live and what you do is merely trials for the heart. Love is a weapon of the heart used to conquer all...
2007-04-12 19:39:50 · answer #7 · answered by Crazily In Love Guy... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one of those questions that just has no answer. You can go with him or stay where you are. You say you can`t go with him - well what does that leave....? There are a lot of ways to keep in contact with someone these days - email, phone, fax, letters, text.....
2007-04-20 08:34:39 · answer #8 · answered by yahoobloo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After you get your degree go out and and find the second man in your life.
2007-04-20 04:48:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love each other, you would try to make this work. It doesn't sound like it to me.
Let him go. I know you're hurting but most importantantly at this time is your education. You will get over this - go out with friends and meet new ones.
2007-04-18 03:46:55 · answer #10 · answered by Susie L 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Discuss the problem. Does he quit on u or does he quit on situation.If he has made his decision and u can't go with him...let him go. He might be not the chosen one for u. And life goes on..
2007-04-12 19:11:50 · answer #11 · answered by SweetSagi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋