O.k I have this close friend and lately all his friends and mine have been telling me that he likes me and he wants to go out with me. But the problem is that he is too shy to ask me.
And i personally like him too, but i don't want to be rejected by him...But i am also afraid to ruin our friendship, if it doesn't work out! SO what should i do? stay quiet and be friends or go for it
2007-04-12 12:32:58 · 16 answers · asked by Maria ☮ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trust me. REALTIONSHIPS RUIN FRIENDSHIPS. 2 of my friends were best mates, practically joined at the hip, and they started going out etc. They broke up about 4 years ago and they havnt talked since. Its really awkwad cos they both hang around with me but only talk to me and not each other. From what i know this happens quite a lot. its a realy really risky thing to do and i wouldnt advise it. but if you think things may work out i think you should ask him yourself, since you seem to be less shy than him. after all you know he likes you so he wont reject you, just dont ask him in front of anyone else. gd luuuck
2007-04-12 12:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by KaZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So ask him out, make it casual, if you like. Maybe foursome with another couple of friends. That way, there won't be much pressure for you both.
If your friends say he likes you, then he probably does, so it shouldn't be big problem.
Just take it slow and easy, that way, you won't burn your bridges behind you.
If you both have fun ,then you can go on with it. If not, just go back to being good friends.
2007-04-12 19:40:00 · answer #2 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it. You're right, the worst that could happen is y'all break up and your friendship is ruined. But on the flip side, it could work out and y'all may work out perfectly. You'll never know unless you go...
2007-04-12 19:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it. i have been in the same position many times and no friendships have been ruined for me. if you like him, go for it, and if he says no, then let him know that you still want to be friends with him.
2007-04-12 19:37:51 · answer #4 · answered by Dragoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it! i am in the same problem! i kno what your feeling really! if he really likes you but is shy, hell still be your friend dont worry.. go for it... i just got off the phone with the guy and were now going out!be careful tho, his friends could be lying!
2007-04-12 19:37:49 · answer #5 · answered by dirt bike babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u go for it... all of his friends cant be wrong... some have to be right... if u like him go for it... and if he really likes then if u do break up u 2 can still be friends
2007-04-12 19:37:44 · answer #6 · answered by Mitch N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situation! I'm gonna go for it. If you have any better ideas tell me
2007-04-12 19:37:38 · answer #7 · answered by *Forget me not* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not shy go for it if you are though you should gradually become better and better friends and than youll be considerd bf and gf go to places and have fun, like group dates.
2007-04-12 19:39:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to him and ask him if he would like to go somewhere with u and just get to know him more and more THEN ask him out and if he says no just say ok thats kool. can we still be frends...he should say ok.
2007-04-12 19:37:28 · answer #9 · answered by Lilie. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it. if hes like my he won't ask because he's been rejected
2007-04-12 19:37:25 · answer #10 · answered by Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋