I am in love with a man who is still married. Im 25 his 38.. I have known him for 3 years and we fell madly in love. It feels so sweet! He has said he will get a divorce, but his got 3 kids (which i dont mind, but understand it takes time to sort him self out) I feel he loves me and has said so..But because i was affraid and insecure i started to see someone else, cos i thought i was stupid to hang around. I saw him about 1.5 weeks ago (he said he loves me, and was really gentle) and now havent heard from him. He said his divorce is coming through this month. Could he be waiting for that? And then come back to me. Or is he just thinking i dont love him cos he knows im dating someone else. I just love this man like crazy...what to do?? I cant stop thinking of him!!!!
2007-04-12 12:21:35 · 7 answers · asked by Kittykat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
His separated from his wife.
2007-04-12 12:28:31 · update #1
you are better of with the guy your are dateing and not with a married man with 3 kids because he is cheating on his wife if he leave her for you and his children with hate him and then hate you for spliting there marrige up the safe path is to tell him that you have no feelings for him and that you have moved on....... he is getting a divorce his going to be staying with his family and just useing you for sex when his wife doesnt give him any so he comes to you when he doesnt get it........you dont want to be in the middle of his wife and his kids because it wont go down well.......and if he really loved his family he would be cheating..........you sould of told him that he is married and has 3 kids and that there will be nothing between you and him are just friends nothing more then that.........you are with somone you sould be thinking about him not the married man thats cheating on his family with you.......be smart about this and end it now with him you are better off with out all the stress you will get from his wife and his children and all they people they know.......trust me and you are only 25 you have your whole life to find someone that you sould be with.......his 38 and married with kids ..........if he goes through with this divorce he will lose everything his wife and kids they will hate him.....he will do the same to you he will cheat on you when the time gets tought and hard for him.....a cheater will always be a cheater he wont stop for you or for anyone his already cheated on his wife with you......you are better off with out him in your life........i hope i have helped you if you need more advice please free to ask me.....
2007-04-12 12:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by badgirlforlife007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is take time out and give your self a few weeks to think about things. You might think this man will leave his wife and children because you are blinded by the love you have for this man. What you have got to remember is he will never be able to leave his wife she will always be in his life as long as he has children who depend on him and what you have to remember is what he is doing with you if he did leave his wife when he went to see or pick up his children would he sleep with her behind your back or worse still sleep with someone else. Your best bet is with the other guy you will en up loving him more than you love this man in time as he has done nothing wrong.Email me if you want to chat I'm a good listener and will try and give you good advice
2007-04-12 12:38:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes. Why don't you give him some time before getting into a relationship.
2007-04-12 12:30:43 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A huge Apology, and proof that you love Him.
2007-04-12 12:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by Come on over here.... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated on his wife with you he would go out and cheat on you as well you are no different. Please keep that in mind.
2007-04-12 12:26:10 · answer #5 · answered by Queen Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him come to u when his dirvorce is final otherwise you could get hurt more by him
2007-04-12 12:24:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wont leave.
2007-04-12 12:24:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋