My parents blame me cause my lil sister got pregnant!!!!!! She had a miscarriage but they say i'm a bad influcence on her!!!!! Why are they blaming me because of what she did! They say i should have never got pregnant in the first place!! they are making me feel like i'm the one causing all the trouble!!!!! please help me out!!!!! how should i deal wit this!
2007-04-12 12:04:08 · 6 answers · asked by Proud Mommy 2 Cameron♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
some people just cant stand up and take responsibility for there action here you have parents who have 2 teen daughters that have become pregnant so who's fault is it well its every ones fault did they not take the time to teach each of you about birth control
you are in no way responsible for your sisters pregnancy
2007-04-12 13:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is not your fault. But I know I understand what you are going through. My little sister blames everything on me, only because my parents are stricter on her. I got pregnant at 15. She is 12 and they have a very tight lease on her, pretty much don't let her go out. And she blames me. But I would talk to your parents and say you and your sister are different, and she can make your own choices in what she does. Though she may look up to you, so I would have a talk with your sister and let her know it is not fun to get pregnant at a young age and to be careful.
2007-04-12 19:37:06 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree It isn't your fault your sister got pregnant, or for losing a child. Tell your parent how you feel. See what they say. The only thing you have to do is be cool calm & collective, it doesn't help when people get fired up, because nobody listens then.
2007-04-12 19:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by ozraikat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you're hurt and confused. This is your sister's life. She makes her own choices. Right or wrong, it was her choice. Maybe, your parents are over-whelmed with a mix of emotions and they need to place blame as they don't know how else to handle the situation. Hopefully, you can talk and work thru all of these emotions.
2007-04-12 19:12:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they cant blame you they have to blame themselves because they are the parents they are the adults its not your fault, you made the choice to have a sex and you had a child and you learn you parents is supposed to talk to your sister so i would disagree with them you made a mistake and they was supposed to warn you sis
2007-04-12 20:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by Orlinda K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so have you been prego before if so how old were you.... its wrong for your parents to put blame on you.......just tell them how you feel in what they have said to you.........how old is your sister.... your parents sould of tought there kids from right and wrong to what happend when you have sex....
2007-04-13 07:42:03 · answer #6 · answered by badgirlforlife007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋