Is t destiny when you meet up?
2007-04-12 11:59:29 · 16 answers · asked by fallin64 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If a guy has a good sense of humor and can make me laugh, he has my attention. If he has a sensitive, softer side, he's in for sure. :) I don't know if I believe in the whole "destiny" thing. If there were only ONE person in this world for us, why do people find love again after divorce or tragedy? The human heart is capable of repairing a broken heart and loving again. That's a fact.
2007-04-12 12:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, God already has a plan for us.
So everything is laid out for us already.
Yes, it's fate.
Personally, I was good friends with my boyfriend for a long time before we started going out. He's loved me the whole time too... but I didn't love him like that. I knew him quite well, we were so comfortable with each other, we got along great and everything. Naturally, my feelings for him appeared as well. We've been together for 14 months and plan on getting married someday.
So for him... it was instant attraction (when he actually saw a picture of me). For me, it was a gradual attraction. I got to know him very well and my feelings then developed.
It's weird how he was right under my nose the entire time.
God really does work in mysterious ways. ♥
2007-04-12 12:02:13 · answer #2 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What I have read over the years, that instant attraction, is really based on that person, having some aspect of a person you grew up with and had a strong affection for.
It could be a family member, like a dad, or brother or Uncle etc.
The person you are attracted to, could have the same looks, or personality traits, as the one you grew up with, and loved.
2007-04-12 12:03:37 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
instant connection leads to instant attraction
gradual attraction has to do with getting to know someone and eventually a connection is made.
either way u meet, it is destiny
2007-04-12 12:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I once experienced this and thought the feeling was so amazing and so rare that it must have been love at first sight or fate / destiny. That feeling can really blind you too. But, I really think it's just lust and it feels so crazy good, we want to believe in that fantasy.
2007-04-12 12:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree! It's the eye contact.
2007-04-12 12:02:40 · answer #6 · answered by Chris G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he /she has to look powerful but innocent in the same time, but not phony innocent like the cats and the big cats, to know for sure they are the good guys, that will win in the fairytale,
usually I prefer sweet looks, rather than wild, but fresh,youthful and happy, with intelligent eyes
2007-04-12 12:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by ParaskeveTuriya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smell, hormones & and all what's going on in your head at the moment
2007-04-12 12:03:49 · answer #8 · answered by trepach 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for me, it's all in the eye contact, there's just so much to be said in someone's eyes.
2007-04-12 12:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I read in a book that it's usually a reseblems of your father, or if your a guy, your mother. Sounds weird i know!!
2007-04-12 12:01:13 · answer #10 · answered by Kal-el 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋