I love this boy named Justin. He is my ex and we still are friends, but i like him more than that. My friend Katie told me she liked him and said that she was going to ask him out. She asked me if I was ok with it, and lying, i said yes. Now they are dating and Katie is always bragging about how she is dating him and he told her he loved her. She is the most unpopular girl in the grade and I don't get it. What do I do to tell him i still want to be with him???
2007-04-12 11:50:43 · 10 answers · asked by XbeautifulXdisasterX 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't. You allowed their relationship so you're left out of the picture.
2007-04-12 11:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you opened up yourself to this situation, when you lied. She was upfront with you, asking your permission to date him. If you still have feelings for this boy, you should have told her.
As to her bragging about him loving her, all you have is her word, and she could just be making all that up.
If you can't talk to Justin, try one of his friends, and see if you can find the truth. If the girl is lying about Justin loving her. Then use his friend, or tell him how you feel about him.
Who knows, he may feel that way about you. But you do need to find out the truth.
2007-04-12 18:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lied to your friend about not having feelings for him! To be honest i dont get it that ur 'friend' would go for ur ex in the first place. I mean i would be very careful of telling my friends id fancy their exes cos usually its a no no. But right now, it seems you just lost your changes. Why didnt you tell him you liked him earlier?
2007-04-12 19:01:25 · answer #3 · answered by Kittykat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but when you decided to lie to Katie about being ok with her dating him, you blew it. Move on. It's over. He's an ex.
2007-04-12 18:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave that one alone. He's your ex and if you mess with that situation, you may end up with two EX friends. Perhaps it will turn around someday and you will have another chance with him but for now, be a good friend to them both and stay out of their relationship.
Besides if he went with you while going with her...IF that were to happen, I wouldn't even trust him because any man or young man (or woman for that matter) that would dump one woman (man) for another...I would not trust them not to turn around and do it to me. Nope not at all!
2007-04-12 19:01:30 · answer #5 · answered by rugbee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had your change, he is your EX for a reason. Your friend does not sound like MUCH of a friend. She should have never asked if she could date him and you should never had agreed. Get over it!!
2007-04-12 18:55:07 · answer #6 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why honesty is the best way to go. Lying will get you into these sort of messes. I don't have any suggestions for you. Sorry
2007-04-12 18:58:49 · answer #7 · answered by Rosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell him how u feel and tell this katie how you feel bout them goin out and that you still have feelings for this justin kid.
2007-04-12 18:55:37 · answer #8 · answered by shaq 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz u didnt wat 2 make a big deal bout it, & u may of wanted to make her happy,
2007-04-12 18:59:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
like sweetie..................grow da hell up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-12 18:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by lovelyz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋