im so dumb! no matter how much i try, i cannot see myself dating a black guy. EVEN IF I LIKE HIM...i like this guy but my feelings slowly start to go away as i realize that he is BLACK!!! i have a HUGE problem. i have had bad experiences with them so i think that it is carrying on to my relationships now...How can i change?
2007-04-12 11:39:39 · 16 answers · asked by okay. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not prejudice...hello!? im black...didnt you look at my avatar?
2007-04-12 12:00:24 · update #1
you like who you like
color shouldn't matter
2007-04-12 11:42:02 · answer #1 · answered by heather_honey_2002hs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you need a hammer to hit you on the head? If you have had lots of bad experiences with them, then stop doing it.
Sometimes there is just too big a culture gap between black and white.
If you can't handle it, then stick to your own sort and forget about dating black men.
Remember, it's not the color of their skin that matters, but the personality of that man. You may just be going after the wrong sort of guy.
So look at who they are, not their color of skin.
2007-04-12 11:45:35 · answer #2 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 15:42:25 · answer #3 · answered by kostenbauber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can't see you dating a black man then don't date him, why such a big deal when you know that every time you look at him you are going to only see him as a black male, and I am sure as bad experiences go you have had as many with whites so don't be judgemental because of what others do, it seems to me you are prejudice and are starting to realize it, so best thing for you is stick to your own color..
2007-04-12 11:46:18 · answer #4 · answered by sonialynnl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its whats on the inside that counts. You obviously have unexplained feelings for this guy. Be spontaneous explore your feelings a little more. You never know in the end he might be your true love. Love is blind, literally. =) looks dont matter sweety.
2007-04-12 11:44:39 · answer #5 · answered by Mandi R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Colour shouldn't matter but if it does to you just follow your heart and even if it doesn't feel right now it probably will do later, anything can happen when you take a chance
Good luck
2007-04-12 11:44:56 · answer #6 · answered by cozyslegend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont look too white yourself.... not everyone is the same, I'm sure the guys that come up to you are not the one's you had a bad experience with so you cant judge everyone the same.
2007-04-12 11:44:22 · answer #7 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't compare him to others first of all! But do follow you heart..if something keeps making u back off then maybe thats what to do!! Good luck with this....the confusion is for a reason!!! Just follow ur heart.
2007-04-12 11:45:56 · answer #8 · answered by sash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Color shouldn't matter. So what if one guy treated you bad. That don't mean that all of them are like that.
2007-04-12 11:44:45 · answer #9 · answered by Andrea luvs u...maybe...lol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what really matters is an inner beauty, not outter one.
of course, if a guy's a good looking fella, that would be a bonus.
but his personality is also very very important factor.
2007-04-12 11:45:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cant judge a man because of his color because another black man treated you bad, or god I'd be off men full stop. give him a break, not all men are no good. so go for it!
2007-04-12 11:45:08 · answer #11 · answered by RACHEL B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋