Should politely turn him down? Should I make them stop seeing each other?
2007-04-12 11:24:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think you should stay away from him and if you are flirting with him you should stop and if it continues then tell your daughter that she needs to stop seeing him but tell her why she needs to stop seeing him or else she'll just ignore you
2007-04-12 11:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by Aracely 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ha! 'Should you politely turn him down?' Are you crazy?!?!
It's your daughter's boyfriend not your sister's boyfriend! As a mother, you should know better!!! Tell him that he is out of hand and that you will have none of his disrespectful behaviour! You should alo tell him that you do not want him with your daughter because if he can hit on you, then he can hit any of your friends or hers. Besides, he's never going to respect you if you don't tell him whats what in no uncertain terms! Your daughter does not deserve this idiot. Now do it!
Or, is there something more that you're not telling?
2007-04-13 04:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by Commodore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was all ready to answer this question but thought it sounded a bit off so I went and read some of your other questions.
Everyone is a prostitute at the right price, what is yours?
Can I be both a stripper and a devout Christian?
Am I a bad mother if I let my 11 year old have sex? (Yes, by the way.)
Where can I find work as a topless receptionist?
Are sex toys permitted by Islam?
You even gave advice to a child asking about how to initiate sex...he admitted he was young, and still you said "Start making out, feeling eachother up, take your cloths off and find a hard surface.."
Either you are a child yourself, or a sick adult who doesn't even deserve to have a child.
I have come to the conclusion that you daughters boyfriend is probably around 11, 12, or so, since that is how old your poor daughter is?
In all honesty, you could go to jail for permitting your daughter to have sex at 11.......there is something very wrong with you.
2007-04-13 10:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know. It's her relationship with him. And turn him down. If your daughter is dating that kind of person. it's not good. What if he started hitting on other women, then he would be cheating on her, and eventually hurt her. YOu don't want that.
2007-04-12 18:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by Rose 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't politely turn him down. Tell him that you are offended by his actions and tell your daughter right then and there with him being in your face. Don't hold back. Tell her!
2007-04-12 18:37:56 · answer #5 · answered by lwheavenlyangel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't tell your daughter, it will only anger her and make her hate you and she'll say "why are you ruining my life!!" or "you're just saying that because you just want him all for yourself!!" and so on.... You need to tell her bf that it is totally inappropriate and that if it continues that you will not allow him to see your daughter. personally, i believe that if he is doing something like that, it shows that he has no respect for your daughter and especially you. tell him that he needs to respect you and your daughter, because she can definately find someone better!! I hope this helps.
2007-04-12 18:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by NLNLN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should I turn him down, politely? what kind of question is that??? no...you set him straight, directly---unless of course, he is eleven. Anything else and he needs to leave the conversation afraid, very afraid.
2007-04-12 19:24:32 · answer #7 · answered by Sweetserenity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if thats the case you nrrd to tell your daughter and tell him not to come around neither 1 of yall.thats so nasty.especially if you not gonna tell her.what kind of mother are you?and politely turn him down,i would tell him to leave us the f**ck alone.politely h*ll.
2007-04-12 18:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by krazygirl30 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't mention it to your daughter, she won't believe you. Tell him that it's inappropriate and if he doesn't stop see if there is a way a to document what he's doing (video tape, record conversations...).
2007-04-12 18:34:37 · answer #9 · answered by Erica 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i thin you sould just ignore him because he will try anything to get your attention any way or another.......and if your daughters bf is hitting on you who eles does he his on when your daugher is with him or not.............. your daughter sould know what he is like ........or get him on vidio camra trying to hit on you or get a recording on or if he says things to you that he souldnt be saying if he has a gf..........i dont think he can be trusted if he is hitting on his gf mother thats wrong............do you and your daughte have a close relationship .....she might belive what you tell her she might not that why you sould try get the proof of him hitting on you............hope i have helped if you need any more advice ask me
2007-04-13 01:47:31 · answer #10 · answered by badgirlforlife007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋