2007-04-12 10:59:05 · 14 answers · asked by Frosty552003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how long have you been dating her for? shouldn't she already know.. see, i am 21 single mom/ and when i meet someone one of the first things i do tell them. is that i am a single mom and been divorced.. cuz' if they want to get to know me more, then they'll stick around.. if not.. hey, there's more fish in the see. if she loves you it wont matter.
2007-04-12 11:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by ashjmy5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you get that far into the relationship without telling her that?? Well, if she truly loves you, she won't leave you. Honestly, being divorced really isn't a big deal. If you were to tell her you were still married, technically, because the divorce wasn't final yet, well, that'd be different. (that happened to me, btw.) Just sit her down, tell her that there is something about your past that she should probably know, and tell her. If she loves you, it won't be that bad. Good luck!
2007-04-12 18:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by aerofare 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just do, it shouldn't be a problem unless you lied to her about it already. In which case you are screwed.
However it's very normal for one or both people to be divorced. Just tell her right away, it's something that should have already come up. Try asking her about any prior marriages, it will lead right into you.
2007-04-12 18:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you because if you are young that will be hard but if you are a grown man it depends on how long you have been going out with her. Also how long you were married and how long you have been divorced.
2007-04-12 18:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by natedawg008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her the truth, point blank. If she loves you, she loves ALL of you. Your history is part of who you are, and she deserves to know it.....its not anything bad you kne, being divorced
2007-04-12 18:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by debbie v 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why, is that such a grand statement to tell her. Isn't she divorced too? Every other person is. MOre power to you!
2007-04-12 18:01:49 · answer #6 · answered by pitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AS soon as she gets the STD test results back from the free clinic!
2007-04-12 18:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-04-12 18:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by tiffany g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honesty is the best policy in this situation hiding it would only hurt you in the long run
2007-04-16 06:41:31 · answer #9 · answered by Koob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont. Nothing wrong with lying.
Dont *** it up man. Enjoy what you got.
What she doesnt know wont hurt her.
2007-04-12 18:01:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋