I have a question for the boys out there, and girls' opinions are welcome too.
Would you date a girl that is rather pretty and sexy but rude personality,
or
A girl that has a great personality and is very understanding and honest, but has no good physical features.(a little ugly, no sense of style, a little ugly maybe etc.)
2007-04-12 02:50:01 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
personality makes up for a lot of other issues... :D
2007-04-12 02:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering that your question assumes both girls' are willing and able and the men are willing and courageous (and what a joyous day that would be) I would have to say... Options A and B.
Depends on the where and when thing.
Rather Pretty but Rude will have it easier, because men are rather simple in that sense.
In the male mind: Beauty = Personality.
So she will sway the men, be courted an' all that and be dated - cuz she pretty.
"Common" but Great will have more difficult time since dating CbG (Common but Great) is more of a something that happens over time. She's a girl you meet more than once. e.g. at the office, at the park etc, and you chat for a bit and after a while you get off the high horse of model dating and walk the path of the normal people and you see that she is great fun to be with.
So men will date both. Only at different state of mind.
BTW, at the finishing line (happy long term relationship) CbG has a better chance at winning than RPbR. Cause beauty will take you so far, but personality will take you to the moon.
Kinda like Australia and New Zealand really.
New Zealand is beautiful place but it gets on your nerves after a while.
Australia is less pretty and more into beer - and it’s a great place to be in.
Also for some reason your question reminded me of a Math for kids TV show we had when I was a kid.
2 competitors had option to choose a pair of shows.
One per was the mighty [+256 shoes], the other were the poor [power of 2] shoes.
So the evil bastard took the mighty +256 shoes leaving the good but dim runner with the power of 2 shoes.
Guess who won?
And the moral of the story?
Don’t go to stupid races with shoes that can do 65536 yards steps, cause your groin WILL hurt.
2007-04-12 10:24:42 · answer #2 · answered by u_woh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reality is that people are trained to instantly judge each other on appearance only. Therefore if you look good the rest doesn't matter even a little tiny bit.
If you are fat, homely, or disfigured in some way you can forget any kind of attention from the opposite sex - at least attention in a good way.
2007-04-12 09:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physical attraction is an important thing...I would have to see the woman because what is ugly to me may not be ugly to you and vise versa. But No on the sexy *****. I can't stand pretentious, rude women.
2007-04-12 09:54:42 · answer #4 · answered by st0l1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is a difficult 1 two answer because in my opinion the person has go to have a nice personality but them again looks do matter. i personally like looking good for my man, because i know that its not just my looks that he is attracted to but also my personnality, i wud go for looks first because when i am out on the road and i see a group of boys the first thing i look at is the handsom ones.
there is no corrrect answer to this question because looks go hand in hand with personality
2007-04-12 11:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by LYDZII3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humans are social animals hence should be judged on the basis of their human characteristics like personality, manners, tolerance and acceptance etc. and not by their physical appearance.
A little lack of perfection in appearance is negligible.
2007-04-12 10:08:57 · answer #6 · answered by W@jiD kHaN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm from the south, and im use to all the rudeness, so i think a rude personality would fit me just fine. But if she comes out to be a 'bia' then i'd rather have a great personality gal.
2007-04-12 09:53:45 · answer #7 · answered by Troy Mac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality > Beauty
2007-04-12 09:56:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your taking to many extremes between the two choices. I couldnt be with a really ugly girl (no offence) but i ***** is out of the question too
2007-04-12 09:56:43 · answer #9 · answered by lethalx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A great personality is better than a hott body, You can always get makeup and go see a plastic surgeon to make an ugly girl hott.
2007-04-12 09:54:18 · answer #10 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would date the "Mother Sheba" girl anyday. LOL. Because looks could be easily fixed but an ugly heart can never be.
Good question.
2007-04-12 09:53:30 · answer #11 · answered by cadgrad2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋