ok well first i haven't tallk to him in a while actually none. he lose to be in my middle school i was in 7th grade he was in 8th i was sooo obessed with him. then he left so i called him alot and started talking to him he said he thought i was hot in middle school. see now i am in 8th he's in 9th i amk going to his school next year but okay this is how it rolls alright i sart talking to him he asks me why aren't you flriting with me i said i don;t know . then he says oh i get it your playing hard to get. i was like in my mind is he okay. he kept asking me if i am fresh that means no diesease and stuff i said no . he asked me if i was a virgin i said yes. then lator on he says i knew you were a good choice, then i said about what cuz we talkin on the phone and haven't seen eachother in months. this was in january. then he asked me out.and yes i said ya. then he snuck on my school campus to see me. he looked different but way hotter.ha had perverted sex jokes and talkin abot hiz dic
2007-04-12 02:36:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we aren't going out anymore that was january and febuary . okay but we still talk as friends he still does the same thing i like it but he aint getten num.
2007-04-12 02:45:30 · update #1
Well yeah it sounds rather obvious that he only wants you for sex. Major hint being that he places a lot of emphasis on the sex with the questions and the jokes and you said he was even talking about his dick. So it wouldn't be wise to stay with him if you want a relationship based on love and not sex because he just wants you for the sex.
2007-04-12 02:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by Jonathan M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your both just KIDS!!! what does it take to make that stick. Trust me, you have many, many, many years ahead of you for sex. This clown sounds like a fricking loser. What kind of guy, and I use the term lightly, asks a girl he is supposedly interested in for more than just sex, "are you fresh" and when it repsonds to you being a virgin as, "I knew I made a good choice" This guy is a scuz and probably will end up a dead beat dad to many. Drop any kind of deal with this clown and wait for someone who trully is interested in YOU. Damn be a kid for a while, it goes by FAST, it may not seem like it now but make sure you make your childhood something you want to remember, Not something that screwed up your life which junk like this guy will do. Good luck!
2007-04-12 02:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tooooo much drama. Don't you see that he's just a playa? God, what does it take girl, does he have to hit you over the head with the playa book before you realize he only wants one thing? He wants to be able to brag to his friends that he got a virgin. Wake up! Sorry if it sounds harsh but I'm just being honest. Also, I think you're way too young to be having sex anyways. Concentrate on getting through school first. Children should not be having sex.
2007-04-12 02:43:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is going through a phase called puberty and it's your job not to give him what he wants. If a young man ask you questions regarding sex he has automatically crossed the line. If he was really into you he would appreciated you for who you are. It's seems like this young man just want one thing and you know this. Your purpose is not to be used as trash or to become another young girl who's pregnant.
Too many of our young people are contacting the AIDS/HIV virus. And no matter how cute he is, he's not worth it. Take your time growing up and learn how to love yourself. Check out these site about AIDS/HIV and by all means protect yourself, and just say no.
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2007-04-12 03:06:30 · answer #4 · answered by pradavee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur in middle school u shouldn't be thinking bout sex. at least not having it till ur older and mature.
having sex takes all ur innocence away.
don't hurry up in growing up, bcuz u will get older and u will have time to do all that without worrying about getting pregnant or disease, i have a friend that got pregnant at 14.
do u want that? not saying that u will have sex and at that moment get pregnant or get infected but still is a risk, are u willing to take it? so tell him to back off, and to chill on the perverted side.
2007-04-12 02:47:53 · answer #5 · answered by Mariposa linda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ew.. i suggest u either see each other a few more times to see if u can reason out and get to know each other a bit better cuz he could have made a wrong approach or didn't know how to approach u..u know tht kind of thing.. but if tht's not the case then i guess u should really stay away from him.
GL
2007-04-12 02:46:18 · answer #6 · answered by girlsrock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the thoughts of being with him, he is only using you for sex. You can do much better for yourself.
2007-04-12 02:40:23 · answer #7 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like it to me. don't have sex with him. move on. there's alot of cute guys out there and you have a really long time to find one. your young.
2007-04-12 02:41:51 · answer #8 · answered by bella-d46 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, he's only after one thing. Don't give him the satisifaction of being your first. Save it for someone who is worth it and please wait until you are older.
2007-04-12 02:43:25 · answer #9 · answered by Cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he just wnated sex.. i am sorry its hard whne your ideal person turns out to be just as crappy as the rest...
2007-04-12 02:44:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋